I have always hated February in college ministry.
The excitement of a new semester wore off back in January. Students are already counting the days until Spring Break. They are not wanting to live in the present and make the most of it. They are leaning hard out of the month.
Students would come in and hug me and I would say, how are you doing and they would say something like: Awful, I don't know if I have the flu or what, but I have throwing up all day. What??? You just hugged me. So, as I was able to untangle myself and make myself walk....not run to the bathroom and scrub my hands hard enough to take the skin off.
Students and parents and boyfriends and girlfriends get crosswise in February. Why??? Because, it is February. They want to cry on your shoulder about it.
As the College Minister, you are working hard at the everyday things of making the ministry go AND, you are working at all the details of the Spring Break ministry team or teams that are going everywhere. It is two full time jobs. You have to talk to the father who wants you to promise there won't be any violent outbreak in the country where you are taking his daughter....and oh yeah, 35 other students.
Attendance is ALWAYS DOWN in February. You can lie to yourself and others and say, "Attendance does not affect me or the quality of the ministry." How many times have you heard a College Minister say, "Oh goody, attendance has dropped off." Three Nevers!
Where is the GOOD NEWS in this post! February is over.....you have survived another February!!! Students attitudes have started to improve. More sunshine on campus brings out more students and the campus comes alive again. Students come out of hibernation.
You can renew your commitment to college ministry because February is over!
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