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Thursday, August 31, 2023

Some "Attractional Topics"....for College Ministry

 I wrote recently that I am a big believer in "Attractional Topics" for the first 2-3 weeks of the fall semester for collegiate worship events.  As a result, I have gotten some questions asking for some examples.

HERE ARE SOME "ATTRACTIONAL TOPICS" I HAVE SPOKEN ON AND SOME FROM OTHERS:

Separating  Basic Christian Beliefs from Just Church Stuff

Five Things Every Christian Ought to Know About Sex

Sex isn't New, but You Wish that it Was

Dealing with a Dark Past 

Is Doubt a Four Letter Word?

Finding Out What God Made me to Be (Spiritual Gifts)

Five Ways to Mess Up Your Life

Making Social Life, School and Church Work

How to Take Relationships Deeper

The Difference in REAL Love and Hormones

How to Have a Marriage Better Than Your Parents

Dealing with Guilty Feelings

Questions to Ask BEFORE You Marry

Dealing with Temptation

SOME FROM OTHERS:

Two Truths and a Lie

Are Some Sins Ok?

What Does God Say About Gender?

Feelings

Are Some Sins Really Ok?

How to FEEL Forgiven

REMEMBER:

1.  Don't Bait and Switch....talk about what you said you were going to talk about...not just a casual mention.

2.  Be aware if you speak on Gender or Homosexuality and the topic is advertised, there may be some come who will be hostile.

3.  Realize some of the best things that come out of it will be one to one conversations later.

Arliss Dickerson's book, Reaching MORE College Students is available at Amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN and Almost Everything About College Ministry is at Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX.



Monday, August 28, 2023

"Attractional Topics????"

I am a big fan and advocate for what I call "Attractional Topics" for college ministry worship events.....especially during the first two to three weeks.

So, what is an "Attractional Topic"?  It is a title or topic that would be of general interest to students who might not automatically come to a college worship event for the first time.  My best example is "7 Red Flags in a Dating Relationship" that I did years ago as a result of our Leadership Team saying they wanted me to do a topic for our first Thursday night worship that would be good to advertise, etc.  They came up with the rough idea for the title and I spent all summer working on it.  Some would say, but that is not a presentation of the Gospel.  In it I talked about what the Bible says about relationships and forgiveness.  That is Gospel.

3 Reasons to do Attractional Topics:

    1.  It communicates to students that it is NOT just a plain old worship service like they have been to  a thousand times or have never attended.  Here is the deal and I know it is a big surprise. Some have grown up in church where it just was not very good or engaging. Sure, that is stunning news. It has never entered the mind of many non-Christians that going to a Christian event was even an option. Why go?

    2.  It is specifically relatable to their needs and interests.  It communicates something about your ministry as a whole.  It helps students see that going there can be to their specific benefit, whether they have been all about church or not.

    3.  It is easy for your upperclass students to invite.  Surveys show that the number one reason a student goes to a college worship event the first time is "someone invited me".  Having a good title/topic makes it easier for your students to invite others AND makes it more likely that they will invite others.  Saying, "Hey come to this thing we are having tonight at the BCM about red flags in a dating relationship" is a whole lot easier than saying, "Hey, want to come to a religious service with me?" 

You do not have to do some off the wall topic to have an "attractional title".  The passage of Paul and Barnabus is a story about "When Relationships Break Up....And What to Do About it".  You get the idea. I am even all about an "attractive title" every week, when possible  You can do that with almost any scripture you might be speaking on.  If you cannot think of a title out of it that would be of interest to students, why are you speaking on it?  But, just to reiterate, I think "Attractional Topics" are of huge value the first 2-3 weeks!

Remember the TOP REASONS 500 students said they attended a campus Christian event the first time:

1.  Someone invited me

2.  Appealing Event

3.  Food 

WARNING:  Do NOT Bait and Switch!  Talk about what you say you are going to talk about.  I heard a College Minister speak on an "Attractional Topic" and he basically spoke on it for about 30 seconds at the end.  Do what you say you are going to do.

"Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity.  Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone."

You NEVER, EVER get back those first 2-3 weeks or first 2-3 Sundays.  Are you making the most of them?  You will live with the result the whole year.

Arliss Dickerson's book, A 3 Part College Ministry Success Formula, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B0BZ6Q&HSV and Almost Everything About College Ministry is at Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX.


Thursday, August 24, 2023

5 GOOD Things and 5 Not So Good Things in SBC College Ministry

The GOOD Things:

    1.  Many college ministry veterans express the feeling that we have some of the best young College Ministers we have ever had.  The future is bright and many of them are already in key positions.

    2.  Paul Worcester serving as National Collegiate Director at the North American Mission Board is a big plus to our ministries nation wide. Paul continually travels the country speaking at collegiate events and College Minister events.  His emphasis on "Gospel Conversations" has been widely adopted and has become a staple.

    3.  There is a renewed emphasis on encouraging and developing college students sensing and responding to God's call to vocational ministry.   Steve Masters led in developing the sbccalled.com website that has a wealth of information beneficial to both students and College Ministers.  Shane Pruitt's new book, "Calling Out the Called:  Discipling Those Called to Ministry Leadership" is being used widely and Shane is developing other resources to go along with it.

    4.There continues to be a significant number of College Ministers who are raising their own salaries to serve in locations where there are no state or local resources to provide for SBC college ministry. And in many situations, they are the only Christian ministry.  The temptation is to start naming examples, but there would be some left out that ought to be at the top of the list.  Whatever we can do to help and encourage them needs to be done.  They are heroes of college ministry!

    5.  State Baptist Collegiate Ministry leaders have stepped up to continue Collegiate Week at Falls Creek, The Collegiate Ministers Summit, and Beach Reach and that is a huge plus.  These events were formally planned and coordinated by Lifeway. This is simply "volunteer work" on their part and in addition, many are providing the finances to make it happen and to fund BCNet. This is a group of committees leading in several crucial areas.  Plus, BCNet committees are also staffed by church and campus based College Ministers who are volunteering their time and investment in our national movement.

The Not So Good:

    1.  Over the past several years the number of campuses being served has declined.  At one point, we were reporting some sort of ministry on approximately 900 campuses.  In recent years, the best estimation by some is that we now have ministries on about 700 campuses or so. 

    2.  There have been reductions in full time BCM Campus Ministers in some states over a period of the last several years.  Some years ago the North Carolina Baptist Convention significantly reduced their number of full time College Ministers.  In the last five years the Georgia Baptist Convention has greatly reduced their number of full time College Ministers. This year Arkansas stopped allowing local BCM ministries to have additional staffers that raised their own salaries.

    3.  Lifeway's elimination of the college ministry position along with the three part time contract worker positions has reduced our support of local ministries and national programs.  Several years ago there were as many as 15 full time people serving in the National Collegiate Ministries office at Lifeway.  This number was gradually reduced to the one full time person and three part time that were let go during the funding cuts brought on by the Covid pandemic.

    4.  To my knowledge, there is no person in SBC life who has full time responsibility for International Student Ministry.  Perhaps the greatest ministry opportunity we have are the thousands of students coming to our campuses from all over the world. Many of them countries closed to our missionaries. In 2021 there were 763,760 enrolled in the U. S.  In 2020, it was over 1 million.  Most return to their countries to become the political and economic leaders.  While there is International Student ministry being done in many local situations, there is no one with that as their prime responsibility sounding the call, providing training, and encouraging these ministries on a national basis.

5.  We are not sending out as many Student Summer Missionaries as we formally did through the North American Mission Board.  At one point, there were 1500-1600 students serving in short term summer ministry opportunities every year with 350-400 Semester Missionaries.  This strengthened the ministries in a wide variety of places and provided an experience that God used to call students to vocational ministry. NAMB is currently sending out 350 to 400 students each summer to assist in church plants. The International Mission Board is sending out a significant number of students in different mobilization efforts. Some State Baptist Collegiate Ministries have continued to send out Summer Missionaries. So, there are some good things happening as well as some losses.

Much good is happening that God is using and we need to celebrate it and encourage those that are doing it.  But, as we lose some things over time, it is easy to lose sight of the overall sum of the effect on ministry to the 18 million U.S. college students.  Many churches have greatly expanded what they are doing to reach and minister to college students.  Many volunteers are serving to fill voids left by the loss of full time College Ministers.  God is still at work on college campuses.

Let's both celebrate and resolve to do more!

Arliss Dickerson's book, Almost Everything About College Ministry, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX and A 3 Part College Ministry Success Formula, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B0BZ6Q7HSV.

Monday, August 21, 2023

The Recipe for Success for a College Freshman

 Everything that tastes good has necessary ingredients.  The ingredients for a good freshman year that leads to a good college career are pretty simple.

1.  Intentional Priorities - Decide what is important to you.  Make those things the center of your activities at the start of school.  If your faith matters to you, make that a priority.  Many, without intending to do so, stop practicing their faith in college simply because they did not make it a priority in the beginning.  Priorities help someone decide what to do and not do when there are lots of choices.

2.  Friends - Everybody wants and needs friends.  Your friends have a big influence in where you go and what you do.  Make friends by your priorities.  If your friends have similar priorities to yours, you are more likely to continue to practice and live by those priorities.  Connecting with the Baptist Collegiate Ministry on campus will open up the possibility of lots of great friendships. Some wise person has said, "We become like those we hang out with the most."

3.  Schedule - One thing that goes a long way in determining she success of your college career is having a workable schedule that involves sleep, eating well, and studying.  Be intentional in planning and living by a weekly schedule that has time for sleep, study, and fun.  The more you function on a regular schedule, the more likely you are to be able to function at your best.

Adapted from Arliss Dickerson's book, Tips for College Freshmen:  124 Tips for Fun, Faith & Good Grades, which is available at Amazon.com/dp/B09QFB9DJ9.

Wednesday, August 16, 2023

Long Days of Fall: Keys to Success for Fall Kickoff by Adam Venters

 The fall semester is finally here and if you are in a College Ministry this is metaphorically the Super Bowl.  Students are coming back in droves.  Campuses are busier than they will be the rest of the year and students are extremely nervous and extremely excited all at the same time.

As I was putting together a plan of what I would be trying to do over the next few weeks, I started to think about some of the personal habits that help me get through the long days of the fall and still be a functioning human.  Most of the events that tend to be a hit are things with free pizza, pancakes, ice cream, and one of my favorites is a "Death by Chocolate" event.  While all of that gets a buzz, surviving on pizza, chocolate and energy drinks might not be the best long term strategy.

Here are a few keys to surviving the hustle.

1.  Master the 14 hour day.  I calculated my schedule out and in the new two and half weeks, I am going to put in well over two hundred hours.  It's just that time of year when the time you spend now compounds later.  So, put in the work now and allow for more family and personal time later on as you reap what you sowed.

2.  Pray.  Pray. And Pray some more.  Pray over ever label, flyer, path, pack of ram and bottle of water that you pass out.  Every chair that is sat in for worship events or pizza parties.  God uses it all.  I was reminded of this as we sent out text messages for this fall asking students if they wanted to receive updates about events this semester.  One person responded back, "Yes, I need to know when you all are doing stuff because I've been frar from God and need t reconnect with him."  Wow!  One simple text asking about events turns into that.  Never underestimate what God is doing behind the scenes.

3.  Prayer walking campus in the earlier hours before campus starts moving.  There are a couple reasons it is good to prayer walk the campus.  First, in the south it's hot so it's the best way to get some exercise in without feeling like you are going to melt on the sidewalk.  Second, often times the big events are set up on campus the night before.  I've been on several campuses and while I try to stay informed, the schedule is busy and something wasn't on your radar can all of the sudden get on it when you see a massive tent in the middle of campus with chairs under it.

4.  Arrive early, stay late and walk slowly through the crowd.  Often times when a lots of things are happening back to back over many days, I tend to turn into the biblical character Martha, who gets scolded by Jesus for working too much and not sitting at his feet like her sister, Mary.  We all have to set up for events, which is the reason to arrive early, but there is something to being able to get off of focused on the tasks and focus on the people.  Now is the best time to hear a story, find out something new about someone, and just listen to all that God is doing to bring peple to these particular moments.  And the only way to hear them is to walk slow.  Don't neglect  to shake all the hands you can.  But take your time.  Think of how Jesus interacted with people.  He had a goal and a mission but he was never in a hurry.

5.  Healthy habits help the long haul.  Let's face it.  Unfortunately, eating healthy and sleep are gong to be a minimum the next couple weeks.  I was told early in my college ministry career that during Welcome Week you'll almost want to sleep at the BCM Center so that you can have more time on campus.  And the longer I do campus ministry work that proves to be true.  The more time I spend on campus in the early days of the fall the more impactful those days seem to be on the rest of the year.  Because of this, in order to keep the pace with long days in the hot and being mostly outside, I increased my workout regimen, especially cardio by a significant amount.  This helps me have the energy I need and also not be as exhausted going from one day to another.  Consider things you can do to help stay healthy in a busy season.

6.  Don't waste your meals.  There are two strategies for meals during this time.  Think about your meals on campus and with your family.  And the first may happen more with the first than the second in this season.  Never eat alone.  You don't have to spend all kinds of money eating the campus dining, but I would eat some.  And I would invite as many students to each meal as you possibly can.  Even if you roll in with a sack lunch.  Don't eat alone. I will eat on campus twice most days and it will mostly be for lunch and dinner.  For my family, I am planning on having breakfast with them.  If your family is like mine, we tend to roll pretty quick in the morning.  With two kids in elementary school, I'm not going to get as much time with them at meals as I normally get.  But, the meals I can have with them, I'm going to make it a priority and to be present.

7.  Have a game plan.  This is may be the most helpful thing.  Map out each day for the next three weeks.  It does not have to be extremely detailed but a morning, afternoon, evening, night plan.  Several yeas ago I worked at a major chain company for coffee and they had a cadence for what we were supposed to to in 30 minute intervals.  Well it didn't take long before you had the pattern memorized and embedded into your brain.  But every so often, I would come in and I was just off.  I couldn't remember stuff.  Everything seemed to break.  I was working hard but not working right.  When that happened, I would go to the back and write the cadence for work down on a napkin and literally follow it step by step and remind myself exactly what I was supposed to be doing.  In a similar way, mapping out a game plan before the madness starts can help a whole lot.  I can tell you that you are about to get way more than you can handle.  So, having a plan already designed helps you stay on course for the 2-3 week haul of the fall kickoff.

Adam Venters is the Baptist Campus Minister at the University of South Carolina.

Arliss Dickerson's book, Reaching MORE College Students, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN and A 3 Part College Ministry Success Formula is at Amazon.com/dp/B0BZ6Q7HSV.

Sunday, August 13, 2023

GLITZ vs SUBSTANCE in College Ministry

 A pastor friend of mine said he wanted his church college ministry to be one of "substance not glitz".  I agree with him........50%.

Substance is all about communicating the truth of the Gospel.  It is about facing and talking about the tough issues of the day that students are encountering. It is about helping them see how the Gospel connects to those issues and how it connects to them. But, here is the thing......doing it to an empty room is not too helpful!  Some ministries are proud of the fact they do not have big crowds.....that must mean they are doing nitty gritty substance.  Or, it just may mean they are dull.

Here is the thing.  Everybody wants and needs some celebration.  In the stress and strain of the college world, there needs to be some fun and celebration.  College freshmen come to school looking for two things immediately........... fun and friends.  Plus, I have learned that most college freshmen think like.....wait for it......college freshmen.  Who knew?

Even the most serious who are planning to make straight A's and go to Med School or get a PhD in something are looking for fun.  Expecting college freshmen to look and think like the later on adults we want them to be is at the least unrealistic.

A healthy college ministry mixes some glitz in with the substance. It starts out in the fall with some glitzy fun and evolves to the substance.....sometimes even at the same event.  Some years ago there were two churches in one college town that were working hard at reaching and ministering to students.  They each had large group events on Wednesday night.  One opened the fall with a month long series on world hunger.  The other opened the fall with a month long series on love, sex, and dating.  You know I do not have to finish that story!  By the way, the College Minister who opened with the "glitzy" series is one of the most serious Bible teachers I know.

Depth is important.  Substance matters.  It matters more when there is someone there to hear it.

Some of the most "substance driven" college ministries I know have some of the "glitziest events" at the start of school.  Even I flinch at some of them.  But, choosing between substance and glitz is a false choice.  Even serious people have parties.  Why should a non-believing college student want to go to a 14 week study on the book of Revelation?  One or two might.  If reaching one or two is your goal, ok.  If starting where students are and growing them to be serious disciples is your goal, where you start matters.

Here is an even crazier thought:  I think in the midst of doing the glitz.....like talking about love, sex, and dating or whatever......we can be talking about biblical stuff like forgiveness and purpose in life, commitment, etc.

I believe Jesus laughed and had fun.  Notice that tax collectors and sinners wanted to be around him.  I don't think that meant he had no substance.  Being dull is not the same as having substance.  Proclaiming the Gospel to an empty room is not more holy!  I walked across our campus one day and there was a man standing on a ladder screaming the Gospel.  I stopped and listened.  I was the only one who did.  I agreed with everything he was saying.  It was full of substance, but it had a mean and angry tone.  It was full of substance.....with NO Glitz........and not one student stopped to listen...not one!  He sure was not glitzy. He had substance.

"There is a time for everything and a season for every activity under heaven......a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance."  Ecclesiastes 3:1 and 4

Arliss Dickerson's book, Reaching MORE College Students:  Next Level College Ministry is available at amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMNTips for College Freshmen:  124 Tips for Fun, Faith & Good Grades is at amazon.com/dp/B09QFB9DJ9.


Thursday, August 10, 2023

The Two BEST Ways to Strengthen Your Ministry

 The Clifton Strengths Analysis  is the name given to a psychometric instrument used by the Gallup organization to test for and identify what an individual's strengths are.

According to the Clifton Strengths Analysis, "The best way to improve is to focus on what you are good at."   They claim that focusing on your strengths makes you "6x as likely to be engaged in your job" and "3x as likely to report having an excellent quality of life." This confirms to me a long held belief I have had about the importance of utilizing our individual uniqueness in our ministry.

THE 2 BEST WAYS TO STRENGTHEN YOUR MINISTRY:

1.  Identify and lean hard into utilizing your particular strength or gift to the benefit of your ministry.  This has long been an idea I have advocated.  In our desire to be well rounded and accomplish a lot, we often focus on improving our weaknesses.  Then, we often short change on our strengths.  What is your particular strength?  How does it benefit the ministry?  Are you utilizing it to the max?

A "more religious term" is Spiritual Gift.  Our Spiritual Gift usually points to our calling.  Utilizing it in our life tends to be bring the greatest satisfaction.  Are you leaning hard into your Spiritual Gift?

Warning:  Leaning into and utilizing your strength DOES NOT mean you can just ignore everything else.  Especially if you are a one woman or one man ministry.  Some things just have to be done to make things work.....AND.....keep your employer happy!  

Beware the natural tendency to copy the best College Minister you know or have heard speak at a meeting.  You AINT them!

2.  Identify and lean hard into the strength of the ministry you lead.  Another way of looking at it might be to ask, "What is unique about the ministry?"  That is the best thing you have to offer.  If there is more than one ministry reaching out to students, what does yours offer that might meet a student's needs?  Multiple ministries meet a variety of needs and connect to a wider variety of students.

Make sure in the promotion of your ministry or inviting students that somehow or other it is clear what is the unique or strong point of your ministry that would benefit them.

Warning:  Do not succumb to the temptation to just copy "The IT ministry".  This ministry may be in your town or on your campus or it may be one somewhere in the country that everyone talks about and points to.  The "IT Ministry"  is built on a particular set of strengths of the leader and the ministry.  You and your ministry may not share any of those strengths.

"We have different gifts, according to the grace given us.  If a man's gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his faith.  If it is serving, let him serve, if it is teaching, let him teach; if it is encouraging, let him encourage:  if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him govern diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully."  Romans 12:6-8

Arliss Dickerson's book, A 3 Part College Ministry Success Formula, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B0BZ6Q7HSVReaching More College Students is at Amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN.


Sunday, August 6, 2023

Some Ideas to Reach More College Students this Fall

                     " Where there is no vision, the people perish." Proverbs 29:18

Reaching more students is not about hoping and wishing. Rather, it is about developing a plan and being intentional in attempting to reach more for faith and discipleship.  Almost no one would say that their ministry is reaching all the students it could or that they desire to reach.  Yet, doing the same thing as last year and thinking more will be reached is probably not likely.

While we must never let numbers determine our success or failure in college ministry, we must take seriously the belief that God cares about every student and that we share that concern.  Are you willing to Do One Thing Differently this year? 

4 Ideas to Reach More Students

1.  If your ministry has maxed out your space, what about adding a second program or event later that evening for at least the first month of school. Or, what about having a "Freshmen Only" fun event or a Survival Tip event the first month prior to your weekly large group event?

If students come and have difficulty finding a seat or finding seats where those who came together can sit, they are likely not to come back.  Crowding is  only fun when students are comfortable being there. Freshmen are looking for fun and friends.

2.  "The first 5 to 10 minutes a person attends an event for the first time determines if they will come back." Can you improve your first 5 to 10?

If that is true or only partially true, what is a new student's first 5 to 10 minutes like at your large group event?  Were they welcomed?  Did someone invite them to sit with them?  Was there music playing?  I am a recent convert to sometimes using "non-religious popular music" playing before an event.  Did the event start on time?  Was the first thing a very upbeat and engaging song led by the band or was it super somber?  Did you get their contact info? Retaining more leads to reaching more.

3.  Adopt a different campus group each week. Pray for them, take a cake, cookies or fudge to them and expresses thanks for what they are doing on campus.

This does two things:  it develops awareness of your ministry on campus.  Do a variety of students even know your ministry exists?  It creates a wider variety of relationships.  God uses relationships.

4.  3 Keys to Church College Ministries Reaching More:

    -Involve the church as a whole in buying into the college ministry. That helps spread the word and usually increases contacts.  Plus, it often leads to more resources being provided.

    -Plan for the start of school event to be church wide such as a special Sunday or on campus move-in or free food.  If your church does a special breakfast/brunch for students on the first Sunday, what about a student testimony in worship or a student band leading worship?  Lots of volunteers can cook hamburgers on campus for Move-In Day as well as carrying boxes.

    -Enlist a wide variety of age categories to adopt, mentor, and invest in students. Students who join can get an "adopted family".  Sunday College Bible Studies taught by a variety of aged volunteers is always a plus.

Adapted from, Reaching MORE College Students:  Next Level College Ministry, that is available at Amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN.

Wednesday, August 2, 2023

New eBook Version of Reaching MORE College Students - $2.99

 Amazon Books has just added an eBook version of "Reaching More College Students:  Next Level College Ministry" for $2.99 as opposed to the print price of $5.75.

It can be read in about an hour.  The brief chapters include:

The Jethro Solution

Asking the Hard Question

Growing Your Leaders to Reach More

Is Your Large Group Event Helping You Reach More Students or Keeping You From Reaching More?

What is the ONE Thing for Reaching More?

Three Options for Growth

What We Can Learn from Large and Growing Ministries

    -5 Common Characteristics of Large Cru Ministries

    -7 Common Characteristics of Large BCM Ministries

    -11 Characteristics of Growing Ministries (Churches, Non-Denominational Ministries & a Variety of Denominations)

Retaining Students

and more.

It is at amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN.

Arliss