My Annual Spring College Ministry Announcement

I know you are either on Spring Break or it is just around the corner, but put this in the back of your mind for after Spring Break.

What is something you have always wanted to try, but were afraid to?  Or you don't want to try it, but others have suggested it....maybe even your students have suggested....and even begged you to do it?

The MOST OBVIOUS thing is to experiment with your large group event.

Should you try a different time?

What about a different night?

What about a different location?

What about two worship events in one night due to crowding?  There could be one at 7:00 and one at 9:00 or 9:30. Or, do the same event and Bible study on two different nights.

What about your church's College Sunday School?  Different approach?  A Breakfast of some sort that you might do each week?  Student led classes?  Guy classes, Girl classes? 

Think REALLY hard!  What is something different you might experiment with at least once.  You might prove it will not work....OR......it might just be something that would take your ministry to a different level!

Trying it before school is out would give you the chance to make the adjustment for the fall, if it works.  Plus, it would help you see what adjustments or tweaks would need to be made.

Think EXTRA HARD!  What could it be?

What about asking your leadership team to brainstorm and come up with something new and different to try?  Or throw out some options and let them pick one.

WARNING:  As I always say, if it is something way out on the edge, make sure your supervisor is in the know.

I would LOVE to hear from you, if you try something....let me know what and how it went....and if you still have a job.

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February in College Ministry

 I have always hated February in college ministry.

The excitement of a new semester wore off back in January.  Students are already counting the days until Spring Break.  They are not wanting to live in the present and make the most of it.  They are leaning hard out of the month.

Students would come in and hug me and I would say, how are you doing and they would say something like:  Awful, I don't know if I have the flu or what, but I have been throwing up all day.  What???  You just hugged me.  So, as I was able to untangle myself and make myself walk....not run.... to the bathroom and scrub my hands hard enough to take the skin off.

Students and parents and boyfriends and girlfriends get crosswise in February.  Why???  Because, it is February.  They want to cry on your shoulder about it.

As the College Minister, you are working hard at the everyday things of making the ministry go AND, you are working at all the details of the Spring Break ministry team or teams that are going everywhere.  It is two full time jobs. You have to talk to the father who wants you to promise there won't be any violent outbreak in the country where you are taking his daughter....and oh yeah, 35 other students.

Attendance is ALWAYS DOWN in February.  You can lie to yourself and others and say, "Attendance does not affect me or the quality of the ministry."  How many times have you heard a College Minister say, "Oh goody, attendance has dropped off."  Three Nevers!

Where is the GOOD NEWS in this post!  February is over.....you have survived another February!!! Students attitudes have started to improve.  More sunshine on campus brings out more students and the campus comes alive again.  Students come out of hibernation.

You can renew your commitment to college ministry because February is over!

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What Are The Different People Groups on Your Campus?

 One of the facets of every campus being different is the difference in "People Groups" and their needs and "reachability."  Just as a foreign missionary does, Campus Ministers should be students of the people groups.

Campuses pretty well have most of the same People Groups, but they may vary in their prominence, needs, etc.  For example, Greeks exist on pretty well all four year campuses.....but....their prominence, availability will vary.  

What are some of the different People Groups?  Commuters, Dorm students (Or, different Dorms), Band, Internationals, Apartment students, Athletes (but, different teams vary in their needs and availability.), Specific clubs, etc.

Some questions to ask:

1.  What group has the biggest needs?

2.  What group might be most reachable?

3.  What resources or plan would be needed to connect to that group?

4.  Do you have a specific resource or opportunity that would connect to a particular group?

If you identify a group to focus on, where do you start?

-Talk with your student leaders and begin to pray about next steps.

-See how YOU personally might make some connections or in-roads into that group.

One of two things may be your driving motivation here:  

1.  What group has the biggest need?

2.  What group potentially could really expand our ministry?

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Time to Think About FALL Freshmen Ministry

 I know that Spring Break has not happened yet....but it is time to think Fall Freshmen Ministry.

WHY?

-Many schools will have Freshmen Orientation/Registration events throughout the spring.  You need to be prepared to have a good looking handout or display.  

-To have a good looking handout, you need to know what special freshmen events you will be having and when.

-It's a good time to check with area churches about when their Senior Sunday will be and possibly if you can attend or even one of your sharp leaders say a word in their youth Sunday School.

-Now is the time to begin or get ready to train upperclassmen to be Freshmen Bible Study leaders.

-What material will you use for Freshmen Family Groups or Bible Study Groups?

-Ask your leadership team to begin praying now about the fall and reaching new students.

-Now is a good time to find out someone who does an excellent job in Freshmen Ministry and what tips they might have.  What have they done well and what have they learned from their mistakes?  You don't have to learn all the mistakes the hard way.

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The BE-Attitudes of a College Minister

1. Be Intentional

Have a plan for your ministry and be working that plan.  Set priorities and work by those priorities.

2.  Be Grateful

No ministry succeeds to any degree without help from others.  Write thank you notes.  Tell people you appreciate them.

3. Be Prompt About Returning Messages

We all know the frustration of needing to hear from someone or thinking they possibly did not get your message.  Your promptness shows you care.  Some responses just need to be Ok or Thanks.

4.  Be in Contact with Alumni

They can pray.  They can speak a good word about your ministry or college ministry in general.  They can contribute.  Contact with alums is a win win!

5.  Be Evaluating

Every semester teaches us something.  Don't miss those messages.  The campus changes.  Your students change.

6.  Be Tweaking

As a result of evaluating, make some adjustments  that need to be made as you go along.

7.  Be Aware YOU are the Face of your ministry AND the Best Tool

Remember, you are never off duty.  Your personality, abilities, relationships, and knowledge will shape the ministry and the longer you serve there the more it will reflect who you are.

8.  Be Aware that Student Leaders are the Second Best Tool and they are Volunteers

Don't take for granted the time and energy they invest.  Always be developing and building up your student leaders.

9.  Be a Witness

By word and deed.  Our deeds validate our words.

10.  Be a Friend

Be a friend and encourager to everyone in college ministry and for your own health, have friends apart from your ministry.

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The ONE THING for a Church College Ministry?

In college ministry, the key question has to be, "How do we make students  lifetime followers of Jesus Christ, love his church, and be workers in it?"

Some years ago I spoke in a college church to their university students and then to the church as a whole.....and then they took me to the best thing.  It was a once a month lunch for students hosted by one of the church's Sunday School Departments.  There were young adults there and children.  The church supplied chicken and the "adults" had brought sides to go with it.  There was a big crowd of students...that happens with food.

The College Minister told me they did it every month with a different Sunday School group hosting in all different age categories.  They mix and mingle.  They even do a game I call "People Bingo."  You have to find people and get them to sign the square that lists different characteristics such as, teaches at the university, has 4 kids, runs a donut shop, etc, etc.  

Many of those who study the loss of high school students to faith following graduation believe that part of the issue is separating youth ministry from the church as a whole.  When they graduate from the youth group....they have graduated from church.

The more we separate college students from the church as a whole, are we not doing the same thing????

A College Minister in Florida told me of having a once a semester lunch where there were tables of doctors, nurses, teachers, stay at home moms, business people.  Students sat at a table where there were people doing what they wanted or even felt called to do. They made connections that benefitted them school and vocation wise....AND connected to older adults in the church.

If we do ONLY college student oriented events in our church, are we doing only what is best for now, but not best for the future?

The argument might be made that the net lifelong effect is best achieved by connecting students to the church as a whole.

MY SIMPLE FORMULA:  Do BOTH college student only events AND student and different age with students events.  That is something that only church ministries can do that campus based ministries cannot do.

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Arliss' Crazy and Sometimes Stupid Rules for College Ministry

1.  Make NO MORE than 4 announcements.

2.  When an outside or entry door has double doors, unlock BOTH doors!  Why have double doors and leave one locked all the time?

3.  BEFORE your major weekly event(s) check the bathrooms for toilet paper....and an extra roll as well.

4.  When setting up for a meal, the fork always goes on the LEFT. Only Oster Forks go on the right.

5.  Do not leave stacks of chairs randomly and carelessly setting around the room.  Put your extras somewhere that can be quickly retrieved, if needed....but neatly stacked and out of the way.

6.  Walk across the campus and through the Student Center EVERY day.

7.  Eat where students eat at least once a week.....cafeterias, food courts, campus hangouts.

8.  The outside appearance of a campus religious center is more important than the inside appearance to your donors and supporters......most will only see the outside when driving by.  This is ESPECIALLY true in the summer when parents and prospective students are visiting campus.

9.  Write personal, HANDWRITTEN thank you notes.

10. If your Center or meeting space is dirty, messed up, or haphazard, it says to people that your ministry is haphazzard.

11.  Pray out loud with students in individual meetings, so they will learn to pray out loud with others.

12. It is the LITTLE things done right again, again, and again that make the difference.

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