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Thursday, December 15, 2022

6 Things You Can do While Your Students are Gone

Do Number 1 for certain and then pick a couple more.

 1.  REST....do some things good for you!  If you are married, spend some extra time with your wife or husband.  If you have children, do something fun with them. If you are single, do something with a friend that is NOT a college student.

2.  Clean up your ministry social media.  By clean up, I mostly mean update it.  I am always surprised when I click on some ministry's web page or Facebook page and the most recent listing on it is about their start of school events....REALLY?  I have even seen some from last spring. Come on, clean that up.  You can always just put your weekly schedule up there for people to see.  One other clean up I would suggest is to see, if everything on there is something you feel ok about parents or pastors seeing when they go to find out about your ministry.  I was asked by some parents recently about a ministry.  I went to their website and saw one of the posts asked the question, "Do you fold your toilet paper or wad it?"  Is that really what you want people's first impression to be of your ministry?

3.  Do thank you notes or personal contacts.  Are there campus administrators or janitors or administrative aids that have been helpful to you and your ministry?  Let them know that you appreciate it by a note, a personal visit or even some sort of thank you gift.

4.  Send an update or summary of the semester to financial supporters.  It can be a "Dear Friends" letter that goes to those who have provided financial support that tells them some of the good things that happened this semester.  You can personalize it by writing a quick P.S. at the bottom.

5.  Send an end of the year update to all alumni.  This could be the same as your "Friends" letter.  Remember, older people have a hard time reading things on red paper even though that is a favorite Christmas letter color.  If you do alumni news, ask for their alumni update.  Always, always enclose a return envelope.

6.  Take a personal prayer and thinking one day retreat.  Go somewhere away from home and work and just be still and quiet all day.  It will drive you crazy the first half of the day, but maybe by the second half you will begin to clear the clutter.  Try it.

Could your college ministry be reaching more students?  Check out, Reaching MORE College Students:  Next Level College Ministry, amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN.

Sunday, December 11, 2022

3 BIG Issues in College Ministry Today


1.   Declining Numbers in Young Ministers Expressing a Call to College Ministry - Those that hire College Ministers indicate that there is a smaller pool available of those who feel called to and are pursuing a college ministry position.  Formerly where there were college ministry classes with 20 to 30 in them, those classes are much smaller and it seems fewer classes are being offered.  There are three obvious reasons for this shrinking pool. 

- First, the emphasis on church planting continues to be a pull to many feeling called to ministry.  Also, church planting often seems more appealing than dealing with the issues of more established situations.

-Second, There is a sense that there just are not many college ministry positions available because of the publicized cuts in some states.  While this is not entirely accurate, that message is out there. 

Finally, there are fewer young adults acknowledging a call to vocational ministry.  And, the hardest college ministry positions to fill are those where they want to place an African American.  One college ministry supervisor said he had looked for two years for a strong candidate with some college ministry background.

2.  Ministries Recovering from Covid - Many campus based ministries have experienced a downturn in their ministry due to two years of strict Covid protocols on campus. 

 Each of those two years they were not able to reach the number of new students as in the past.  Those two missing years continue to show up in shortage of student leaders and just in attendance as a whole.  When a ministry misses a year or has a "down" year, that hole shows up over the next four years.  When you plug two of those "down" years into the ministry, it leaves a gaping hole that will continue to be an issue. 

 One interesting thing some have reported is that often church college ministries were not required to adhere to campus Covid policies since they were not on campus.  As a result, they have not seen as dramatic an effect. The downturn in attendance in these campus based ministries leads to questions as to whether the College Minister is doing a good job.  Everything looks normal; why isn't the ministry where it used to be size wise?  That is unfair and puts an extra pressure on the College Minister.

3.  Anxiety About Positions - There continues to be some anxiety among many College Ministers that their positions may be lost due to the losses experienced in other places. Or, a concern that a downturn in church offerings will affect their position.  

Could your college ministry be reaching more students?  Check out, Reaching MORE College Students:  Next Level College Ministry, amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN.

Thursday, December 8, 2022

Beach Reach Spring Break Ministry is On!

 One of the great Spring Break Mission projects is Breach Reach in Panama City.  There are three (3) weeks scheduled for Spring Break 2023.

Week 1:  Saturday,  March 4-Friday, March 10

Week 2:  Saturday,  March 11-Friday, March 17

Week 3:  Saturday,  March 18-Friday, March 24

There is a $30 Registration Fee for each participant for Beach Reach that will be paid during registration.  Lodging is available at Laguna Beach Christian Retreat Center.  Leaders need to call Laguna Beach directly to request those lodging arrangements.  Meals can either be reserved at Laguna Beach or groups can decide to cook on their own.  Linens can be reserved for a separate fee.

General questions can be addressed to Mark Whitt at mwhitt@tenbaptist.org or 270.293.6632.  Beach Reach is one of the great ministry opportunities for witness, worship and just fun and community building for your group.

Should your college ministry be reaching more students?  Check out, Reaching MORE College Students:  Next Level College Ministry, at amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN.

Monday, December 5, 2022

How Much Time Should You Give One Student?

In my recent blog article, "What Causes 'The Lid' on Your College Ministry?" I did not mention one possible lid.  It is possible to let too few students take up the majority of your time.  There is a conundrum here in that we want to invest in students individually and we want to be available for those that need us.

We need to do one to one discipleship and we must do crisis or developmental "counseling".  But, here is the thing.....there are a few students who will take four or five hours a day, if we will let them.  Or, one of the things I warn young College Ministers about is, letting your office become the lounge area.  Got some time to kill?  Go hang out in the College Minister's office.  He or She does not have anything better to do.

I have a graduate degree in Guidance Counseling and one of the most valuable things I learned is, students who need to talk will often take ever how much time that you give them.  If you give them an hour, it will take an hour.  But, my great Guidance Counselor Professor shared this, when a student says, "Can I talk to you?" and it is not something that has been planned or scheduled, you must control the situation.  This is that student that is famous for hour long conversations when you do not have an hour.  When they ask you say, "Sure, I have about ten minutes."  Almost always, that will be enough time.

On the other end of the spectrum, it is possible to invest too much time in the super sharp leader types.  I am not backing up on my belief that we must be investing in leaders and that developing them will grow our ministry, as well as develop leaders for the future church. But, it is also possible to just be talking to those students we enjoy talking to or are "our favorites".  All of us have students we relate to more naturally and just enjoy.  But, if we succumb to that temptation, it will mean we will not have the time to connect to other students out on campus or to be doing something else only we can do.  

There is a fine line in students feeling we are accessible and not letting our office become a "lounge area".  Some years ago, I went to see another Campus Minister on campus.  The secretary said he was back in his office.  I walked into his office to see one student sitting behind the College Minister's desk doing home work.  Another was sitting in front of the desk playing a guitar and there was a couple in the corner....well, they were obviously on a very romantic date.  The College Minister was in the other corner doing some paper work.  That is when your office has become the lounge.  Sometimes, you just have to say, "Hey folks, I got some stuff I have to do, can we move this to another area, please."

Give students time, but be wise in when and how much time you give to individual students.

Should your college ministry be reaching more students?  Check out, Reaching MORE College Students:  Next Level College Ministry, at amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN.

 

Thursday, December 1, 2022

What Causes "The Lid" on Your College Ministry?

 The Lid is that number that you just cannot seem to grow past.  Students graduate and you reach new students, but the number being touched seems to stay about the same.  The attendance at your large group worship event varies a few one year to the next.....but is basically the same.  It seems to have hit a “lid”.

Some Causes of a College Ministry Lid:

1.  The Facility - An obvious answer is that you may have simply maxed out what your meeting space will hold comfortably or even semi-comfortably.  Is it time to consider meeting somewhere else?  Another possibility is where you are meeting is not well set up or the appearance is just harmful to the overall ministry.  Is it time to do some serious painting and repair? Or, is it just the wrong place to meet due to access, etc?

2.  Student Leadership Organization - Sometimes, a ministry hits a lid as a result of the number or organization of the student leaders.  Is it time to consider a new or re-vamping of your student leadership team?  Is it time to enlarge your leadership team?

3.  Resources - It could be that you have simply maxed out what you can do with your current budget.  Obviously, raising more money would help.  Part of making that possible is demonstrating and expressing a vision of where you want the ministry to go and getting people to buy in.  Second, should you simply cut out some things budget wise to put more money where it can help you reach more?

4.  Bad Reputation - If a ministry has a bad reputation on campus, it will always affect the number of students reached.  Do you know WHAT the reputation is on campus and WHY it is?  Usually, a bad reputation is the result of some misbehavior or perceived misbehavior by student leaders.  Occasionally, it is the result of the ministry breaking some campus rules or regulations.  Stressing to student leaders the importance of their behavior and how that affects the ministry is huge. It is possible for a ministry to not deserve the reputation it has gotten.  Good and accurate publicity and promotion is key in that instance.  

5.  Time and Day - Perhaps, you ministry's large group event has been the same time and day since Moses was a freshman.  Campus schedules and rhythms change.  Maybe once that was a free night is a major class night now.  Or, the night is still good, but the time is wrong.  I also am an advocate of events starting and ending on time.  If your meeting is known for going way over time, do students not come because they have home work and your event is too unpredictable?

6.  Wrong Strategy - Strategy is the intentional plan for the ministry.  There are two common mistakes in strategy.  First, is copying another ministry with different resources and in an entirely different setting.  Or, the strategy has not been tweaked and adjusted as the campus and students have changed.  Post Covid is causing many ministries to need to re-build which may call for a new strategy.

Strategy and Student Leadership are two of the key things I talk about in my new book, Reaching MORE College Students:  Next Level College Ministry.   I hope you will check it out at amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN.

Monday, November 28, 2022

Reaching MORE College Students: Next Level College Ministry

 I have just released a new book, Reaching MORE College Students:  Next Level College Ministry, through Amazon Books.  It is unapologetically about challenging ministries, and hopefully helping equip ministries, to attempt to reach MORE students.  There are 12,000,000 full time college students in America today.  The best estimate by college ministry leaders is that ALL evangelical college ministries combined (campus and church) are reaching about five (5) percent.  That would be 600,000 students.  In some parts of the country, the 5% figure would be low and in other parts, it would be way high.

A unique aspect of the book is the chapter, "What Can We Learn from Large and Growing Ministries" which lists 5 common characteristics of large Cru ministries, 7 characteristics of large BCM ministries and 11 Characteristics of all types of college ministries from charismatic to very traditional church ministries.  You may or may not be surprised at the commonalities.

Some of the Chapters Included:

Barriers to the Next Level

Your Ministry's Most Valuable Asset and Tool

Your Strategy

Asking the Hard Question

What is the ONE Thing for Reaching More Students?

What Can We Learn From Large and Growing College Ministries?

The "ONE Thing" chapter includes the thoughts of College Ministers who lead from medium to large ministries of what they have seen the one thing to be again and again. You may not be surprised at the common thread that runs through their comments about what they have seen to be true in their ministries.  I hope you might consider, if it might help you as you wind up this semester and look toward the start of the new semester.

You can check it out here:  amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN.


Sunday, November 20, 2022

R-E-S-P-E-C-T.......Is Your Ministry Respected?

 I have written that the "It Factor" for College Ministers is respect.....not charisma.  In working with college students for the long term God process in their lives, it is not charisma or how trendy we dress.  It is respect.  But, here is another dimension to that.

Do your ministry partners respect you and your ministry?  In the Southern Baptist world, a Campus Minister is responsible for not only having a ministry on campus, but they are responsible for working with, helping, and encouraging church college ministries.  It is a complicated mine field to navigate sometimes.  Some are very cooperative.  Some are eager for help.  Some are mildly cooperative and some do not interact at all or even seem to compete with the campus based ministry and other church ministries.  To that mix, we also have to add other ministries on campus....do we cooperate, compete or ignore?

A simple fact is, if your ministry and you are not respected, other ministries are less likely to cooperate.  Lack of respect toward a ministry is sometimes caused by poor behavior on the part of the professional leadership or students involved.  However, sometimes lack of respect is caused by either a poor job, lack of awareness, OR that the ministry is smaller than others and not considered "significant" by others.  That is unfair, but true.

So, how do we earn "ministry respect"?  First, we do the best possible job we can do.  Excellence is always a key to respect. Part of excellence is being what we say we are.  Also, it sometimes means working with those who will cooperate and going forward.  We don't wait for everyone to cooperate.  When some are not cooperative, we cannot let that keep us from being cooperative with those who will.  Some ministry leaders have to see the benefit of cooperation.  Some will cooperate, if they see it values God's Kingdom as a whole.  Others will only cooperate if they see the benefit to their ministry.  Some have argued, if we "give away our ministry" others will be more cooperative.  The opposite is often true.  A strong thriving ministry draws cooperation.

There is an unhealthy competitive spirit that is harmful to ministry to students and to God's kingdom overall.  But, there can be a "HEALTHY competitive spirit".  That is when other ministries do well and even do not want to be cooperative, we can let that drive us to do the best possible job we can do.  We are not angry or negative toward that ministry.  But, we work at our ministry being all that it can be.

The personal actions of the College Minister are a BIG factor in ministry respect.  

5 Things that Help Earn Respect:

- Always respond to and return messages as soon as possible and no later than 24 hours.  Not responding to someone is disrespectful to them!

-Express thanks and give credit where thanks and credit is due.  When a partner helps. do not take it for granted.  Spread the credit around.

-Communicate with ministry partners regularly and let them know what you are doing that might affect them or even benefit them.  Ask for any information they want to share with you.

-Highlight things that are happening through cooperative efforts.  Share the credit.

-Never bad mouth other ministries....even when they deserve it.  

My scripture when I wrestle with this issue is Mark 9:38-40.  Teacher said John, We saw a man driving out demons in your name and we told him to stop because he was not one of us. Do not stop him Jesus said, No one who does a miracle in my name can in the next moment say anything bad about me, for whoever is not against us is for us.

If YOU are respected, your ministry will be respected.

Arliss Dickerson's book, Almost Everything About College Ministry, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX.  Coming soon:  Reaching More College Students....Next Level College Ministry.  

Thursday, November 17, 2022

Winding Down the Semester

 One of the great things about college ministry is that there are clear beginnings and endings.  Semesters do that.  No matter how good your ministry has been this semester or maybe even how poor it has been, it is about to be history.  There are some thing you can do now that will benefit you and your ministry when the term begins in January.

PERSONALLY:  There soon will be some time for resting and catching up from all the very long days and even a few all-nighters on Retreats or at conferences.  Taking care of yourself in the right way is a benefit to the ministry.  If you are like me, you usually don't get much reading done during the semester.  So, now is the time to tack some fun reading that is relaxing for you personally.  Remember, exercise is one of the things that rests and renews us.  It is a time to do a little extra in family time.  Most likely you have cheated your spouse, children, and anyone else you love in time and focus.Is there something you promised to do with or for them that didn't happen?  Perhaps, it is not too late.  Some have found that it is beneficial to schedule a whole day away from everybody and everything just for reflection, prayer and being still.

MINISTERIALLY:  As a semester is ending, it is a good time to look through your list of regulars and realize who you didn't see the last few weeks of the semester and make contact with them.  You might also look at the list or pictures of your Freshmen Welcome events that first couple of weeks and see those that you had such a great impression of and now realize they have disappeared.  Perhaps, at the end of the semester they are realizing they goofed.  The last few days of the semester are a great time for evaluation and feedback from students.  Invite some of your core students for pizza and ask questions like, "What most impacted you this semester?"  Or, "Where did we goof this semester?"  Or, "How can I be more what this campus and you need next semester?"  Maybe you could invite 5 or 6 freshmen who became very involved this fall and have a coke or coffee and ask questions about what drew them there and what has made them feel connected.  If you are a regular speaker at your worship event, now is a great time to lay out ideas or topics for next semester.  It might even be some topics that come out of your listening sessions.  Write some personal thank you notes to some people who were a huge blessing and help to you and your ministry this semester.

SPIRITUALLY:  How is your personal Bible study?  Not study for speaking, but just YOU study?  Now is a good time to stockpile three or four books that you will read during the Christmas break.  There are so many special worship events during this season.  Resolve to go to them not as a professional religious worker, but as one who loves the Lord and want to honor Him with you life.  It may make a huge difference in what you receive.  And, take some time to review your calling to college ministry.  Why and how God called you and how you see that playing out in your life.  Remember to thank God that you have the opportunity right now to serve in your calling.  Finally, pray for friends in college ministry who are struggling with some big issue or those that are raising their salaries and working on that for the coming year.  Call a pastor or two and just tell them how much you appreciate them. 

Arliss Dickerson's book, Almost Everything About College Ministry, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX.  

Monday, November 14, 2022

God Called You to Love College Students.....Not be Famous or Lead a Large Ministry

This is a re-post from a Blog I did four years ago.  I think we all need to be reminded it of it...especially as the semester starts to wind down and lots of things may not have gone as you had hoped and prayed.

One of my students recently asked me jokingly, "Who is more famous, you or ____________?" and he named a College Minister who is well known for his ministry and for being super active on social media.  I do not remember what smart mouth answer I gave him.  But, later I began to think about it seriously.

One of the dangers of social media is we see what others are doing and sometimes feel that it is way better and more significant in God's kingdom than what we are doing. I have a friend who has led what I would characterize as a "top 25 Baptist campus ministry in the U.S."  As a result of some changes he felt called to make by the Lord, he is now on another campus, doing all the same things well he did at the other campus.....and.....not getting nearly the response he got on his previous campus.  The two campuses are significantly different.  The resources are different.  He is being faithful to God's calling on his life.  Some might wonder what ever happened to him.  But, the Lord know where he is.

Another friend serves on what might be called "the least Christian campus in America" and he has been having 35 students at his weekly large group meeting.  He is seeing some students come to Christ.  That is wonderful in the context where he serves.  He would be one of my nominees for Campus Minister of the Year.  But, he probably will not be described by anybody as "famous".

Right now in my "Fifth Season" I am leading what is the smallest ministry I have led in many years.  Sometimes I am frustrated.  Yet, I feel I am where the Lord wants me right now.  The other night I was frustrated by our drop in attendance.  But, I left excited by the conversations I got to have with some students that night.  It was not about the size of the crowd....it was about God's movement in their lives and my being privileged by God to be present to it.

God did not call us to be famous or to lead a large ministry.  He called us to love students in His Name and to be faithful to that.  Most of us will not wind up to be famous.....but that is not what we were called to be.  And, we nay not lead "a large ministry", but God knows where we are and He will continue to speak into the lives of students.  That is what he called us to.  A few of us may wind up leading large ministries and a handful of us may be a little "famous" in our tribe.

But, if we worry about being famous or how many likes our latest statement on Facebook or Twitter gets, we just need reminding, that was not what we committed our life to.  God is speaking into the lives of college students and we get to be part of it!!

Arliss Dickerson's book, Almost Everything About College Ministry, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX.

 

Sunday, November 6, 2022

A New College Ministry Tool to go with an Old Favorite or Two

 A college ministry veteran and friend called me all excited to say I needed to let College Ministers know about Shane Pruitt's new book, Calling Out the Called.  Most of us are familiar with Shane from his role as Next Gen Director for the North American Mission Board.  In fairness, I need to add that Scott Pace at Southeastern Seminary is also one of the authors.

I have long advocated every College Minister having at least two or three copies of Dr. Jeff Iorg's book, Is God Calling Me, to give to students who are sensing, wrestling with, or clarifying God's call in their life to vocational ministry.  I spoke with a freshman today that I am going to give a copy of this book.  One of the concerns of many is that it seems fewer young adults are expressing or responding to a call to ministry. I have no doubt that God is calling, but for many, there is a reluctance to respond or to know how to follow up on their initial response.

One of the key roles for a College Minister is to not only share the news of God's Call to some to serve in ministry roles, but to mentor and help them as they prepare for where God may lead them.  This is one of the most important things we can do for now and for the church of the future.  So, Calling Out the Called, is meant to be an aid to us as we help students. Some of the chapters include: "Wrestling with the Call"; "Balancing Family and Ministry" and "Persevering in Ministry".  I must confess that I have not read the book yet.  But, my friend does not get excited about much.  So, check it out.Amazon.com/dp/B0BL2833PH.

I would also remind you to check out and use sbccalled.com which is a great tool.  A parent recently said his son felt called to ministry, but had no idea what kind of role he might fit.  I was able to point him to www.sbccalled.com which has a great list and description of all kinds of ministry positions.  Plus, there are tons of other helps there for the student or you.  You don't have to be Baptist to use it.  I won't tell anybody.

If you serve in college ministry and are aware of students in your ministry sensing a call to ministry or just beginning to ask the question, "Is God calling me?", I would encourage you to make it a priority to meet with them regularly and be a guide and resource to them.  Who knows, the next Billy Graham might come from your ministry and be a blessing to the world.

Arliss Dickerson's book, Almost Everything About College Ministry, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX and A College Ministry Success Formula is at Amazon.com/dp/B091F5S1RF.


Sunday, October 30, 2022

Does Higher Education INCREASE the Likelihood of Quitting Church? The Figures

 In a Nationscape Survey of 477,225 here are the results in terms of education and church attendance. A growing concern is the number of young adults when asked their religion reply, "None".  Those of us in college ministry have often quoted the figure that 7 out of 10 high school seniors who were active in church make no spiritual connections in college.  So, the take away for many is that higher education is the problem.  So, WHO is most likely to say they are a "None"?

The Groups most likely to say they have NO religion by education:

Less than high school 32%

High School grad only 28%

Some College  27%

Trade School 26%

Associate Degree 24%

Bachelor's Degree 24%

Doctorate 24%

Bachelor's degree plus some graduate work 21%

Masters Degree 20%

According to this survey, the less education someone has, the greater the likelihood they will NOT be religious.

Arliss Dickerson's book, Almost Everything About College Ministry, is available at amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX  The College Ministry Success Formula is at amazon.com/dp/B091F5S1RF.

Wednesday, October 26, 2022

The 4 Legs of a Strong College Ministry

 Apart from the work and movement of God's Spirit in and through a college ministry, there are four things that determine the level of response and or "success".  When a ministry blesses the life of one college student, it is a success.  But, obviously all of us want and work for a greater response than one.

The Four Legs of a Strong College Ministry

1.  The College Minister

2.  Student Leaders

3.  The Campus and or Church Situation

4.  Resources

The gifts and strengths of the College Minister will always have a major impact on the ministry.  It is the biggest factor in determining the personality of the ministry.  This does not happen instantly, but will grow and become a greater factor as more time passes.  

It takes two to three years to begin to develop student leaders who have bought into the process of the ministry.  That is a part of a College Minister's gifts beginning to shape the ministry.  Plus, there will be no major buy in to the ministry apart from some level of buy in to the College Minister.

Little to nothing can be done to shape or change the campus or church situation that affects the ministry.  But, learning to understand the situation and what the strengths and weaknesses are of the situation will benefit the ministry.

Money, staff and facilities will always have an effect on the ministry.  They will not make the ministry, but they will always be a significant factor.  Part of developing the ministry must always be attempting to grow the resources, sharpen them, and use them the most effectively.

The two greatest areas of impact that the College Minister has are his or her self and the development of student leaders.  Be working on your being the most effective you can be and developing and investing in student leaders.

Arliss Dickerson's book, Almost Everything About College Ministry, is available at amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX and The College Ministry Success Formula is amazon.com/dp/B091F5S1RF.

Monday, October 24, 2022

Is YOUR Success Formula Realistic and Personal?

 All the College Ministers I know work really hard with lots of hours.  Because there is always something else that needs doing or another student we need to contact, it is difficult to feel successful. Part of it comes down to having a realistic and personal success formula.  It is easy for us to base our sense of success on what we see others doing and how we compare to it.  And that has all sorts of land mines connected to it.

One of the killers of College Ministers is comparison.  Why isn't our ministry as big as that one?  How come donors don't give us big checks like they do to that one?  How come I don't get the recognition and appreciation that College Minister gets?  There are lots of variations of these questions and comparisons.

Let me let you in on a secret:  I have seen and known LOTS of college ministries and College Ministers (some even sort of famous) and I don't know a one yet that is or was perfect.  So, if that is what you are expecting, forget it. That is a myth.  I think it is important that you have a personal success formula that is BOTH realistic and personal to you.

5 Things that go into a healthy and realistic personal success formula:

1.  You know and are utilizing you personal gifts and abilities.  Our gifts are what shape our personality and utilizing them is how we are being who God made us to be and give us the greatest sense of satisfaction.

2.  You know what the people who are paying you expect and you are working at those tasks.  Like it or not, that has to be part of our formula.  When we take the job, we say okay to those expectations.

3.  You do some tasks that give you personal satisfaction.  Part of a feeling of lack of success is never feeling done.  Each College Minister needs some things he or she does that gets "finished" and it feels good.  It may be writing something.  It may be developing that new Bible study series.  But, have some personal tasks that get done that you can feel good about.

4.  Make sure your expectations of your ministry are consistent with the campus or church where you serve. Every situation is different.  A deep south ministry and one on the most "unfriendly non-Christian" campus outside the Bible Belt just do not compare.  Rejoice in what happens other places, but remember where you are.  That is not about excuses...it is about seeing where God has you right now.

5.  Just as WHERE you are affects a realistic success formula....WHAT you have to do with affects the reality of your situation.  One ministry may be able to serve pizza after every event and another is doing iced tea once a month.  Be the best steward of what you have.  I like iced tea just as much as I like pizza!

So, cut yourself some slack and figure out where you have been doing too much comparison to others and "that perfect College Minister" and remember, he or she probably has cooties and somebody does not like the way they are doing it. Have a great week!

Arliss Dickerson's book, Almost Everything About College Ministry, is available at amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX and A College Ministry Success Formula is at amazon.com/dp/B091F5S1RF.

Thursday, October 20, 2022

College Students and Vocation

 A college ministry veteran said to me recently that he felt we were not doing a good job talking to students about God using their “secular” vocation. In our emphasis on encouraging students to be missionaries or to go plant a church, we are leaving out something. 

He says that something is how God can use each of us in every day work places. God does not want all of us to be missionaries and that we don’t just work to make money to support those who are “doing God’s will”.

Being a Christian teacher is not a second class calling. Being a Christian at work is serious and wonderful!

Are you talking to your students about it?

Arliss Dickerson's book, Almost Everything About College Ministry, is available at amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXXA College Ministry Success Formula is at amazon.com/dp/B091F5S1RF.


Monday, October 17, 2022

A Second Spiritual Experience

 "I got really saved yesterday."

One of the things College Ministers must be prepared to respond to in a right and helpful way is when students share they have had a "second spiritual experience".  Many years ago in reading applications for  missions appointments, the vast majority of them, in telling their spiritual story, would say something like, "I came to Christ when I was 8,9, or 10 and then when I was 19...."  They would then share some other very meaningful spiritual experience.

Some declare it "when I really became a Christian".  Some call it a re-dedication.  First, we must be grateful that students are growing, changing in their relationship to the Lord, and being serious about it.  Most of these students I have dealt with were the ones who were already very serious about their relationship to the Lord.

How do we deal with this and help them?

    First, we must hear it with a warm heart and express joy with the student in this experience.  For many, it is what I call a "discipleship commitment".  They have gone from a "child-like" faith to the beginning of an adult faith....not just "I don't want to go to hell" to..... "I want my life to count for the Lord." Hooray for that kind of experience!

    We must let them name it and decide where it is leading them now and will lead them in the future.  It may be an initial salvation experience or it may be a new understanding.  We must avoid telling them what it means.  It is easy for us or someone else to tell them God has called them to the ministry. Or,, this is what it means.  We must also beware of talking them out of it. If they decide it is "coming to Christ" for the first time, we must trust that. We must walk with them....not for them in this experience.  Listen to them as they process this experience and put it into their words.

    One point of understanding may be to talk with them about different spiritual peaks in our lives.  Some come through gaining knowledge, some through a direct encounter with the Lord, and sometimes as one of different signposts in maturity and change in a full life. It is part of what the Apostle Paul spoke of in Philippians 2:12 to "continue to work out your salvation with fear and trembling."

The great privilege of a College Minister is to be part of this process.

Arliss Dickerson's book, Almost Everything About College Ministry, is available at amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXXA College Ministry Success Formula is at amazon.com/dp/B091F5S1RF.


Thursday, October 13, 2022

"DOING" the Bible is Complicated

I teach a Sunday morning Bible study group in my church and have for many years. I attend a pretty traditional down town county seat First Baptist Church.  We have many community leaders and lots who are upper level professionals.  

Recently, a young woman who was living on the street started coming to our worship service.  After a few weeks, she came to my Sunday Bible study group.  Our class is very interactive and she began to speak up often and sometimes was a bit disruptive in being over talkative.  After attending solo two or three times, the next time she came she brought some others with her who were living on the street.

Our scripture focus that day was about care for the poor.  Talking about care for the poor when it is just a topic is one thing and talking about it when "the poor" are present is a whole other thing. I worked hard at being careful and considerate in what was said.  It was not just a philosophical discussion.  It was about real people with real people present.

A few Sundays later, she was back with with two or three other friends she had invited  Part of our scripture that day dealt with anger and how to handle it.  I said, "What happens when we let our anger control us?".  One of the men spoke up quickly and said, "You wind up in jail" .I had to work to suppress a chuckle.  I thought he sounded like he was speaking wisdom from experience.  

The lady who is the leader of the group spoke to me after we finished and said she wanted to share some things next week.  I am not sure quite what I said in response.  But, a friend on the church staff who has been working with her told me later  that she was planning to "teach next week".  I have been thinking exactly how to handle that.

Several years ago, our church had a brief discussion about whether to stay down town or move to a new location with the pluses of building a new building that would not have the issues of dealing with an "historic" church building.  Some said they wanted to stay down town because churches were needed down town.  That is easy to say.  The reality of it can be difficult.

It is easy to talk about what the Bible says about ministry to the poor, etc.  But, "doing" it is complicated. A minister friend of mine was "accosted" many years by a man with one of those fourteen pound Bibles and said, "My Bible is a red letter Bible.  Is yours?"  My friend responded truthfully, "I have a Green letter edition.  It has the ACTIONS of Jesus underlined in green."

I am good with the Red Letters.  It is the Green Letter stuff that gets real complicated!

Arliss Dickerson's book, Almost Everything About College Ministry, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX.


Monday, October 10, 2022

A Blind Spot in Dealing with Criticism

 If one serves in ministry for very long, they will experience criticism.  Some comes from the best of motives and some comes just from ugliness.

It takes a strong backbone to withstand criticism and continue to do what you believe is right in the face of harsh rhetoric.  I have served in a couple of Christian leadership roles in where I, others, received criticism.....and sometimes related to stories that were inaccurate.  It takes continuing resolve to plow on, do what you think is right, and not just throw up your hands and walk away.

But, here can be the problem or the blind spot.  It can be easy to not listen to any suggestions, helpful advice, or good feedback. Our  being resolute can turn into harmful  rejection of any other view or idea.  I have seen it happen in others, which suggests to me that maybe, maybe I have been that way sometimes.

Two Suggestions when dealing with Criticism:

First, make a real and concerted effort to sort out that which is just criticism and that which is good and helpful feedback.  Everybody that disagrees with you about something is likely not against you.  And, there is usually more than one way to see things and even to do things right or best.

Second, one way to sort out helpful feedback from just angry criticism is to "consider the source".  If someone is always negative, that is an identifier.  But, when someone has demonstrated their positive concern for the situation and for you, then likely their "criticism" is something that at least needs to be heard and not ignored.

There is a difference between criticism and a different view of the situation or possible alternatives.  We must do our best to sort it out.  Beware the fine line between being resolute during times of criticism and being stubborn or bullheaded to your own detriment!

Arliss Dickerson's book, Almost Everything About College Ministry,  is available at amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX.

Wednesday, October 5, 2022

Nathan Porter Was a Hero and a Friend!

 I learned Monday of the passing of Nathan Porter, who died at the age of 90 in Waco.  Nathan was large in my life for several reasons.  He was the featured speaker at the first state wide Baptist Student Union retreat I attended as a freshman. He was one of the five or six well known Christian speakers on college campuses in the 60's and 70's.  I had never heard a Christian speaker like him.  He was warm, funny, and did not yell.  He talked about issues I had never heard in sermons.  They were real life stuff.  I had thought just about all preaching was about the Israelites.  He and Ed Seabough (another one of the great campus speakers of that era) influenced the development of my own speaking style.

When he closed his message that day, he said, "Let's pray with our eyes open."  I certainly had never heard that or done that before.  It was a powerful moment for me as we looked at each other around the crowd and prayed.

I later became the Baptist Student Union Director at Henderson State University in Arkadelphia, Arkansas and was asked to serve on the Pastor Search Committee at First Baptist Church, where we attended.  Our Search Committee wanted someone that would relate well to students since there were two Universities in the city. Nathan came to be the pastor of First Baptist Church and he and Fran took the town by storm.  Fran began to lead a Senior Citizens ministry at the church and Sunday nights at FBC became like Collegiate Week at Glorieta with large crowds of students in attendance.  

I posted on my Facebook page Monday of the death of Nathan because I knew he meant a great deal in the lives of many who would want to know.  Here are some of the comments that different ones made.

"His messages of compassion always found their way into my heart."

"I had him speak to my students on hunger."

"He was an outstanding leader and friend."

"He was my favorite pastor from my growing up days at FBC.  At least one of his spiritual gifts was to listen intently during a conversation, even with a teen, and respond well with wise counsel."

"Nathan Porter was speaking to us by a big fire next to a pond. I was experiencing disappointment with 'organized" church mainly due to overt and residual racism.  He challenged us to remain with the 'organized' church and make it better."

"He was a great friend to everyone but especially the University community."

"He was the perfect college pastor."

"Nathan baptized me."

"His love for college students was obvious and our college experience was better because of him."

"Never will forget him!!! Great influence on my life."

"Nathan is on my list of godly men who influenced my life."

"He gently helped to bring me to a better place regarding race, exclusion, and respect.  He was also courageous, transparent, and fun."

One former student told me that Nathan had asked him how he dated since he did not own a car.  So, from then on, Nathan loaned him his car.  He said, "it was always washed and full of gas."

Many young College Ministers leave college ministry due to feeling alone with the ups and downs of college ministry.  Nathan was a super friend to me during my early days as a College Minister.  I later served as the Personnel Committee Chair at FBC, Arkadelphia and worked with Nathan dealing with different church issues.  Nathan was always about how to communicate better and connect with people.   He took down the large ornate pulpit and simply stood on the platform and spoke.  I remember the call I got as some were upset because to them the "pulpit represents preaching God's word".  We weathered that and some other storms together.  We sometimes butted heads dealing with tough church issues, but we were always friends, 

Nathan Porter was one of God's choice servants.


Arliss Dickerson's book, Almost Everything About College Ministry, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX

Monday, October 3, 2022

Supervision is NOT a Dirty Word!

 I have had lots of supervisors in my life from a Lieutenant Colonel in Vietnam to a Summer League Baseball coach showing me how to rake the baseball diamond.  I have had great ones, some okay and one or two I would pass on.

Several years ago, I was given the responsibility of  helping our one year Outreach Coordinators and working with their supervising College Ministers.  Some of these recent college graduates were having a great experience, making a real difference in the ministry and others were frustrated and even confused.  So, what was the difference?  I believe the simple answer was supervision.  One College Minister said he told his newly graduated and appointed Coordinator, "I am going to treat you like a professional.  Go do what you think needs doing."  Here was the problem with that:  the newly appointed Coordinator had no clue what needed doing because he was not "a professional".  He had never done this before.

TWO THINGS LACK OF SUPERVISION CAN CAUSE:

Lack of Focus - I found that those without supervision tended to jump from one thing to another.  It was sort of whatever direction the wind was blowing that day.  And, it was not connected to any long term strategy of what the ministry was all about or trying to do. Consequently, their efforts did not make any significant difference in the ministry.

Less than a Positive Experience - Those who did not have good supervision tended to leave their one year position with less than positive feelings about it.  And, many had signed on for that year to see "is this possibly something God is calling me to do."  There are more and more reports of a shortage of young adults feeling or committing to a call to the ministry.  We need to be doing everything to help young adults experience and respond to a call to vocational ministry.

TWO THINGS GOOD SUPERVISION DOES:

Teaches - Usually, a supervisor is in that role because of their previous experience.  One thing we are trying to do is pass on that experience to others and they do not have to learn everything the hard way.  The tuition cost for the School of Hard Knocks is often expensive and painful.  One of our jobs as a supervisor is to help them be and feel successful.  And, we are to help them evaluate and learn from both the good and the bad.  We can help them process experiences, which I think is huge in their growth.

Encourages - Good supervision encourages.  First, it helps them not feel they are in it alone.  One of the biggest killers of College Ministers is the sense of feeling alone and that I am the only one that cares. Just knowing someone else cares is a huge encouragement.  Even when something does not go well, we can help someone know their effort was good and worthy!

ONE MORE THING GOOD SUPERVISION DOES:

When there is more than one College Minister, and even if the one or two others are experienced, there has to be somebody in charge.  Besides encouraging and teaching, they work at everybody being on the same page and pulling together in the same strategy.  There are lots of strategies that God uses.  But, they usually are not very successful, if multiple staff are working on different strategies. So, if you are a "Supervisor" make sure those with whom you work feel appreciated and cared about.....and that everyone is on the same page in the strategy and what their role is in that strategy.

I will go way out on a limb and say not only is supervision not a dirty word, it is one of the tools that God can and does use.

Arliss Dickerson's book, Almost Everything About College Ministry, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX.

Sunday, September 25, 2022

College Students and the Numbers

 The National Center for Education Statistics says in 2020 in the United States there were:

   19.4 million college students

    12 million full time students

In 2020 65% of Americans identified as Christians according to the Pew Research Center.  If 65% of college students were connected to and involved with a college ministry that would be:

    7.8 million college students involved in a college ministry

To my knowledge, no one has ever come up with a figure of how many college students are involved in a Christian campus based ministry or church college ministry.  In trying to come up with such a figure, I have talked with different College Ministers who work locally and nationally.  Out of these conversations, I have come to the figure of 5% of students involved.  On many deep south campuses, it is larger than this.  On campuses not in the Bible Belt, it would be significantly less.

If 5% of college students were in a Christian campus based ministry or a church college ministry, that would be:

 600,000 college students currently connected to a college ministry

Let's be super optimistic and say it is:

 600,000 to 1,000,000

That would leave 11,000,000 college students to reach for witness and ministry.  That is not counting those students who are part time. Think and pray about it.

Arliss Dickerson's book, A College Ministry Success Formula, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B091F5S1RF.

Wednesday, September 21, 2022

5 Predictions About College Ministry

 Steve Lutz in his book, College Ministry in a Post-Christian Culture, published in September of 2011 made five predictions or what he called "5 Disruptions that Could Shake Up College Ministry".  As I reviewed them the other day, I thought 11 years later they are holding up pretty well.  Here they are in brief and sometimes more in my words. A few years back I was on a program with Steve and was impressed with his insights at that time. After looking back at these "Disruptions"......I would say, his crystal ball was pretty good.

1.  The Higher Education Bubble will burst.  With tuition costs rising, more students will go to community colleges and trade schools and enrollments will decline. Today we are seeing some campuses close and others struggle with enrollment numbers and being forced to cut budgets.

2.  Technology will Distance, Disperse and Depersonalize Connections to students.  Students will not spend as much time on campus.  It will be harder to connect to them as they will have more fractured schedules.  Read Covid and on line classes into this one.  Some students are now getting degrees without setting foot on campus or living in the dorm and taking most of their classes on line. They tend to isolate more.

3.  Non-Traditional Students will Become more Traditional.  Students will become older and more part time.  They will be more female and than male and will come from a wider variety of ethnic and racial backgrounds. The number of guys is definitely declining in college enrollments.

4.  College Ministers May face Diminished Access to Secular Campuses.  Some years ago we saw some ministries not allowed official RSO status due to their requiring certain beliefs by their officers, etc. There were some different legal challenges on different campuses.  Many campuses that formally got full  religious preference lists now are fortunate to get a few names. This varies greatly from campus to campus and state to state.

5.  Financial Sustainability will be Challenged.  Lutz said there likely will be a decrease in campus ministry funding.  We have seen this one play out in some different Southern Baptist State Conventions with the significant down sizing of College Ministers.

Thanks Steve for your prophetic voice.  Any more thoughts for the future, we need to think about?  If you want to check it out, it is at amazon.com/dp/0834127652.

What do YOU see as coming trends we need to be prepared to face?  Maybe we can do a better job of thinking ahead now as things continue to change.

Arliss Dickerson's book, A College Ministry Success Formula, is available at amazon.com/dp/B091F5S1RF.

Sunday, September 18, 2022

Funny Things Happen in Church!

 I love funny stories of things that happened at church, weddings, and yes even funerals.

My dad was a photographer and photographed lots of weddings.  At one, the groom fainted as the ceremony started.  They sat him down on the front row and revived him.  He stood back up and they started again.  He fainted again.  They sat him down and revived him again.  Then, they started again.  He fainted the third time and they took him outside to revive him.  Brought him back in and pronounced them husband and wife.  I would have done the pronouncement after the first faint!

A friend of mine was doing a wedding and the bride began to spit up.  My friend said, "Let us pray."  He said he would pray a little and peek to see if she were done.  When she was finished, he said Amen and started again.  As he came to the conclusion, he was tempted to say, "Ok, it is time to prove your love and kiss her."

A friend attended a wedding where one of the Brides Maids was so nervous a muscle in her bottom began to twitch and captured everyone's attention.

A pastor friend was performing a baptism when the rather large lady panicked and began to struggle and flail her arms throwing water over the glass partition and drenched the members of the choir.

Another friend did a wedding where they had a dog come down the aisle with the rings attached to its collar.

I had just begun a ceremony when the groom and his guys had just come in and he leaned over to me and said, "Could you real quick say a little prayer?'  I asked why and he said, "I just realized my pants are unzipped."  I said, "Hold on and when I have everyone stand for the bride, they will look back up the aisle and you can zip them up."

At one church on Sunday night the youth all sat on the left side of the fan shaped auditorium.  They were doing baptisms.  One of the men being baptized had not worn any underwear under his baptismal gown and as he went up the steps out of the water, his bare backside was visible to the youth group.  They all collapsed with laughter.  No one else could see what they were laughing uncontrollably about and were furious at them for their mis-behavior during baptism.

Grady Nutt told of a friend of his who was doing a graveside service in Texas after a heavy rainstorm.  As he stood at the head of the casket and said, "Let us pray." he suddenly fell silent.  After a couple of moments of his silence, people began to look up and saw him climbing up out of the grave since the ground had collapsed where he was standing.

The pastor of the church where I grew up was baptizing a man when his toupee came off and floated to to the top. 

I hope you have had a smile today.  Have a great week and be aware of God's presence and work in and through your ministry!  And, I would love to hear your funniest church story.

Arliss Dickerson's book, A College Ministry Success Formula, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B091F5S1RF.

Thursday, September 15, 2022

The First 5 to 10 Minutes at a Christian Event?

 Someone has said that "People determine within the first 5 to 10 minutes whether they will return to a new event."  

Wow!  If that is only partially true, it is a stunning statement.  So, how is the first 5 to 10 minutes at your collegiate event?  I am not talking about the first 5 to 10 of the actual worship event.  But, what about the 5 to 10 when they enter even before it starts.

Is it clear where to go and how to enter?

Are they greeted?

Is it obvious where to go and what to do?

Does someone walk with them or just send them?

Does someone invite them to sit with them, if they are alone?

Remember that music playing before the event starts helps with the "awkward silence" or feeling out of place.  I am a recent and strong convert to the idea of a playlist of some or all current popular music, (in good taste) not just Christian music playing.  

Remember the "Unforgiveable Sin of College Ministry"

That is NOT getting their name and contact info.  If we do not get their contact info, then we cannot follow-up in any way and it is strictly up to their impressions whether to return or not.

How does the first 5 to 10 minutes at your events stack up?

Arliss Dickerson's book, A College Ministry Success Formula, is available at amazon.com/dp/B091F5S1RF.

Monday, September 12, 2022

Thoughts on College Ministers Raising their Own Salaries

 Should College Ministers raise their own salaries?

I posted on Facebook recently that I had talked with two or three people over a couple of days period who had just learned or were frustrated about many Baptist College Ministers having to raise their own salaries. I got an interesting variety of responses to the post.

Some in the deep south are upset that many BCM Campus Ministers are now having to do personal fund raising to provide their own salaries.  Those are in states where Baptists are strong and in the past these positions were salaried.  Now some positions have been eliminated or in some places the BCM Campus Ministers are required to raise a percentage of their salary.

One well wired Campus Minister said in his state it had been a plus. He indicated it was a plus because they have been able to grow their college ministry staffs by the fact that many more could serve by raising their own funding.

There are a variety of sides to this issue.

 1.  Some Baptist State Conventions do not allow their College Ministers to do fund raising for fear that will subtract from the money given to the over-all Southern Baptist Funding called the Cooperative Program.  So, they are not allowed to enlarge their staff through individual fund raising.

2.  One gentlemen I did not know responded to my post that had been shared by a friend to say that his son and daughter-in-law were doing it in working for a non-denominational college ministry and he thought it was just fine. They were recent college graduates with no children.  There is part of the issue....younger adults with no children.  As College Ministers age and they have families and those children begin to grow up, they require braces, etc.  Then, they go to college. Financial requirements for a single person or newly married couple right out of college are different than a couple in their forties and fifties with two children in high school or college.  I won't even raise the issue of money being put aside for retirement. The staff of many non-denominational ministries that raise their own salaries often serve 3-5 years and then go on to what is next.  That is not a bad model, just not what I think is the best overall model.

3.  We need long serving College Ministers with experience and the ability to organize staff, work with alumni, pastors, and to mentor our newer College Ministers.  It is no coincidence that larger college ministries are most often led by long serving veterans.  One campus with which I am familiar had two non-denominational ministries close down because their younger staff members left and there was no one to take their places.  It is my understanding that each raised their own salaries.

4.  Constant turnover in leadership is one of the killers of a college ministry.  We need long serving permanent college ministry staffs to continue to maintain and grow ministries..

5.  Why are cuts being made and College Ministers being asked to raise all or part of their salaries?  First, money being given to churches and then on to state-wide Baptist Conventions is either declining or staying pretty level and everything costs more.  Second, I believe (this is just me) that as they have to make cuts, it is easier to cut College Ministers positions because they get less immediate pushback.  The pain and result of those cuts will not be felt until a few years from now.

6.  There is a trend to say that college ministry should be done by local churches.  This comes as a result of some high profile church college ministries that are large and doing a really good job.  Here is the problem.....when you track the numbers, there are not many of those type ministries and not a lot of churches that can put the resources and staff (sometimes 3-4 full time and 5 to 10 Intern/part time positions) to have these kinds of college ministries.

7.  Some who raise their own salaries say it is a plus because they can focus on college ministry....not doing "denominational chores".  

What is the solution?  There is no magic bullet one answer solution.  Here are some options.

1.  If all college ministry alumni would give a little money every year, that would go a long way.  And, remember, some College Ministers are not asking because they are not allowed to ask. Spreading the word about the need helps those that cannot say anything.

2.  We must have more long range vision that knows there is no way cutting back on college and young adult ministry is not going to bite us in the years to come.

3.  Those of us who believe in the value and necessity of college ministry must speak up and speak out to those in denominational and church life that have sway and make decisions.

4.  Don't forget to pray!  Pray for College Ministers you know.  Encourage them.  Pray for denominational leaders making hard money decisions.

Arliss Dickerson's book, A College Ministry Success Formula, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B091F5S1RF.


Monday, September 5, 2022

The Chairs Matter

 Those that know me know that I am freaky about the way a room is set up for an event.  I recently read an article about four different ways to set up a room for a discipleship group.  I get it.  I think it matters. Some years ago, I became aware that our leadership team was more engaged and got more done when we sat around tables instead of in a circle without tables.  I do not think that means that all groups will get more done around tables.  I think it means the setup of a room affects the mood, reaction and response of the people involved and that we sometimes have to try different setups to see what works best with what group.

4 Things the Setup Affects

1.  The neatness of the room gives a first impression overall.  When a student walks in, do they see chaos or does it look like something worthwhile is about to happen?

2.  The number of chairs related to the number of people present gives a sense of how it feels.  If there are way more chairs than there are people, it feels disappointing or "Why am I here, since not much of anybody else is here?" Too many empty chairs sends a negative message.

3.  It communicates an overall sense of caring and preparation or that someone cares.  

4.  It affects the interaction with the speaker, band, or whatever the program is.  If those in attendance feel way distant from the front or stage, it is difficult to feel a part of what is happening or to interact.

Remember When Setting Up

1.  Try to anticipate how many will attend and set up that many plus about 20% more.  People that come together want to be able to sit together.  So, having a few extra chairs makes this easier to happen.

2.  Decide what shape to use.  If there is the intent to have audience participation or discussion, a more "fan-type" setup may work best.  This is when the rows bend around more where it is possible to see others in the crowd and not just be looking at the back of heads.  Students can see others and makes it easier to hear what is said in discussion or Q&A time.

3.  Have some extra chairs readily available (But, not just piled here and there.) for that hooray event when more show up than you anticipated.

4.  Sometimes students are reluctant to sit on the front row.  But, there has to be a front row.  If this is true in your ministry, make the front row shorter than the other rows.  That way, there are not a lot of empty chairs up front and crowded everywhere else..

5.  Mark off or tape off the back row.  Often, these fill up first.  By taping off the back row, that leaves it available for students who come in after the program starts.  

Try experimenting with different set-ups and see what you learn.

Little things make a difference.It is often our attention to the little things that makes the difference between good and excellent.

Arliss Dickerson's book, Almost Everything About College Ministry, is available at amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX.

Thursday, September 1, 2022

$20,000 Welcome Week and Other Random Thoughts

One of my pet sayings is, "Spend wisely extravagantly the first two weeks of school."

Some years back, I did an article about the amount of money that some large college ministry churches were spending on Welcome Week.  One had spent $20,000 for multiple events.  Another had planned an event that involved renting buses, etc.  When they totaled up the cost, that one event was going to cost $7.000.  As they thought about it, they realized they hard part time employees that were not making that much and they decided to cancel the event.  It was not wise use of the money.

I recently saw that a college ministry church had a big event on campus and had a staggering number of students attend....in the thousands.  I asked how they had made something like that happen.  Part of the answer was, "They have one College Minister with four full time Associates and four or five Interns."  Wow!  That blew me away.  Hooray for that church making that kind of financial commitment to college ministry.

The End Result?

My friend told me they had been disappointed that only about 20% had filled out Info or Contact Cards. Would they have been better off to have a "smaller event" and been able to make more connections?  But, just because a student did not fill out a Contact Card does not mean he or she will not show up next week or some time in the future at one of their regular events.  In Matthew 13 Jesus tells the story of sowing seed widely....but some soil was way more productive.  I have confessed often to liking and being partial to big crowds.  Are big crowd events always the most productive?

A Frustration of Mine

I will admit to being frustrated by college ministries that are "proud" of their small crowds.  I think they believe that shows they are doing "depth ministry" or they are not "huckstering the gospel".  Maybe....and maybe it shows they are not doing some things they need to be doing.  I believe there is a need for "Large Crowd Events" and "Small Crowd Events".  And if a College Minister determines all his/her satisfaction level by the size of the crowd, there will be lots of unhappy days.  By the way, "large" is different in different contexts.

Random Conclusions

1.  Hooray for churches that have the resources to make a major commitment to college ministry.

2.  But, don't compare the size of their ministry against the size of a campus ministry that has one or two staffers and a much smaller budget.

3.  I am still for "Spending wisely extravagantly"......but, let's keep evaluating what is WISE.

4.  ONE BIG FACT:  The size of a ministry staff will be a major factor in determining how many students are reached.

5.  College Ministry strategy must be well thought out.....even a large staff usually will not overcome poor strategy.

Arliss Dickerson's book, A College Ministry Success Formula, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B091F5S1RF.





Sunday, August 28, 2022

Why Do Students Drop Out of a College Ministry?

Anyone that has been in college ministry long has experienced the frustration of seeing students disappear from our ministry that we thought were there for the long term....some who had even been in leadership roles.  Others are freshmen that we thought would be future leaders.  

Freshmen Sometimes Disappear After the First Couple of Weeks.

There are three common reasons that freshmen often disappear.

1.  Their Survival Needs were met.  They came to make friends and not feel alone.  After making some connections in the dorm or in classes, they don't feel the need to maintain the connection to the ministry.  The

2.  Reality Week Panic.  Reality Week is that  time about the third week when some pop tests begin to happen and they don't do well.  They panic and decide to drop much of what they have been doing outside of class in order to better prep for classes.  When they realize they can do more than one thing, they are embarrassed about coming back.

3.  Some begin to work part time.  Many freshmen who need to work often do not find that job or get started until the second or third week of school.  Then, time really becomes a squeeze. 

Why Do Upperclassmen Disappear?

1.  Some feel that they have done all the ministry has to offer.  When every year is much of the same and there are not levels of opportunity, some simply walk away.

2.  A break-up of a dating couple or a friend group can cause ripples through several students.  When a couple breaks up, one or both may stop being involved to avoid being around the other.  And, there can even be fallout of friends taking sides in the break-up. Sometimes, there can be a spat between friends that will cause issues in the ministry.  This can particularly be devastating to a smaller ministry.

3.  A Moral Failure.  A student may become involved in some behavior contrary to who they have been in the past.  Their feelings of failure or guilt may drive them away from the ministry.

4.  Internships, Hospital Rotations, Practicums and Student Teaching are realities for upperclassmen.  This is just part of the education experience for many students.  I believe it is important that we express understanding to them and keep our personal relationship to them warm and on-going.

5.  Church and Campus Ministry Overload.  One of the difficult things for campus based ministers is encouraging students in connecting to a church, but then seeing them drop the campus ministry.  Part of this is the reality of time students have and part of it reflects the necessity of church and campus based College Ministers communicating and working together on schedules, opportunities, etc.

Try to Remember:

1.  Don't take it personally when a student disappears....even one you have invested a great deal in personally.  They may just be struggling to survive.

2.  If they have benefitted from your ministry, then you have been a gift of the Lord in their life and that is what your original intent was.

3.   It is possible they will circle back in the next semester or so and that is part of your keeping the relationship open and going.

One College Minister friend tells of a lady who became one of his best financial supporters who dropped out after her freshman year and never came back.  She said later in life she realized all that he and the ministry had done for her.  

We never know all the ways God will use our investment in students....even when they disappear from the ministry.  Continue to believe and operate on the principle that God is always doing more than you realize!

Arliss Dickerson's book, Tips for College Freshmen:124 Tips for Fun, Faith & Good Grades, is available at amazon.com/dp/B09QFB9DJ9.

Tuesday, August 23, 2022

The Conundrum of a Smaller College Ministry

 Every ministry has a strength and that strength should be recognized and promoted.  Usually, somebody pushes back and says, "But our ministry is small."  My pushback to that is....."Small can be a plus."

I genuinely mean that too.  Some students do not want to be part of a large ministry.  They feel lost and unknown in the crowd.  For two years I led a church college ministry that was much smaller than the campus based ministry that I had led.  I found that we were able to connect some students who were not comfortable with the large church ministry in town.  They felt no one knew them or were just plain uncomfortable.  As our ministry became more known, we were able to connect them to our smaller ministry.  That was a plus for them and us.

A conundrum is defined as being "a question or problem having a conjectural answer" or "an intricate or difficult problem."

Here is the Conundrum:  Many of them were not comfortable inviting others or bringing friends.  Some even did not want the ministry to grow as they enjoyed the smaller dynamic.  I really realized this after we had done a special event on campus and connected with one of the fraternities through it.  The following week, one of the fraternity members came to our regular worship event.  A few spoke to him, but did not relate well individually.  The next week he came and brought his girlfriend.  Again, there was not much personal interaction between our regulars and he and his girlfriend.  The next week he came with his girlfriend and her roommate.  Again, not much connection from our regulars.  He never came back and did not respond to my attempts to connect with him on campus.  I get it.  He just did not feel welcome.  He had given it three tries.

4 Things:

1.  We must be genuinely understanding and sensitive to the fact that inviting, bringing others, and visiting with strangers is painful for some.

2.  We must identify any of our students that might be outgoing and spend some special time with them making them aware of the situation and even "training" them in being great minglers, etc.  Their knowing the situation and being aware of how they can really make a difference can be a plus.

3.  Speak some about the vision for the ministry....not just fussing at them for not being more friendly or inviting others.  Promote vision.

4.  Music playing prior to an event starting can help fill "uncomfortable quiet".  I am also good with not all of it being Christian music.  Obviously, clean is important.  Some College Ministers are great at developing such play lists and sharing them, if that is not your strength.  I think "non-Christian" popular music helps "non-churchy" students feel comfortable.

Leading a smaller ministry has its pluses and minuses.  Hang in there and keep working with it.  

Arliss Dickerson's book, Tips for College Freshmen:  124 Tips for Fun, Faith & Good Grades, is available at amazon.com/dp/B09QFB9DJ9

  


Monday, August 22, 2022

6 Secrets of Successful College Ministers

 I have been blessed to be around a lot of great College Ministers.  When I served as a part time consultant for the college ministry office at Lifeway, I traveled to lots of different campuses and saw them in action.  Here is the first thing I learned, most of those who asked for help were already doing a terrific job. They were always evaluating and thinking. Through a period of years I have gotten to be around some of whom many would say are some of the best.

Let me share what I think are their "secrets":

1.  They keep looking and learning new things.  They never feel like they have it all figured out.  They are always looking at others ministries and asking questions.  They are willing and open to learn from those who are not as "successful" or experienced as they are.

2.  They don't make sweeping changes every year.  They just tweak it a little here and there.  But, they will make a major change when they are convinced of the need for it.....such as adjustment to schedule, etc.  They continue to be students of their campus and how it is changing and how they may or may not affect their ministry.

3.  They build up their ministry by building up their student leaders (both spiritually and numerically).  They look for and develop leaders.  And, they are not afraid to let them lead....especially in areas where they are not strong.  Yet, they are willing to say no, when necessary.

4.  They look for and allow others to counter-balance their weaknesses.  They are not afraid to promote others or put them in the spotlight.

5.  They understand that a ministry of any size must have significant funding.  So, they are willing to invest the time and energy at key time to raising money to develop and expand their ministry and or staff.

6.  They give time and priority to doing what they do best.  Some are speakers and some are behind the scenes organizers.  They recognize what they do well and they lean hard into it.

Arliss Dickerson's book, Tips for College Freshmen:  124 Tips for Fun, Faith & Good Grades, is available at amazon.com/dp/B09QFB9DJ9.

Monday, August 15, 2022

A College Ministry Resource that Keeps Getting Better

If you have not looked at www.sbccalled.com, you need to check it out.  If you are familiar with it, but have not looked at it in a while, you need look again..  New resources continue to be added. It is a great site to point your students to that have either sensed a call to ministry or are trying to discern it.

Some of the sections include job descriptions, education requirements, and information about how the SBC works.  My favorites have been the listings of the MANY different job descriptions within full or part time ministry.  Many students, like me, may have grown up in smaller churches and did not know of anything other than pastor, music ministry, and missionaries.  They will find here a variety of ministry options which may help a student clarify their call.  Also, there is information about education requirements.

Check out the new section titled "Collegiate Student Ministry & Missions Opportunities." You and your students can look at the various ways to serve the Lord in the summer.  These vary from those through State Convention Summer Missions positions to  Gen Send, IMB, Fuge and Student Life.  There is also a listing of State Convention and local Association Camps and Conference Centers.  This is the first time a student can access all of them in one place. So, this site is not just a tool for those called to ministry, but any student willing and interested in investing a summer.  And no, it is not too early to think summer service opportunities, as many students must decide about applying for internships, etc 

Steve Masters, Baptist Campus Minister at LSU has been the driving force in developing sbccalled.com.  If you have thoughts or suggestions, you can contact him at lsubcm@eatel.net.  Check it out and see what is new or check it out for the first time.  But, you don't have to be Baptist to benefit from it.

Arliss Dickerson's book, Tips for College Freshmen:  124 Tips for Fun, Faith & Good Grades,  is available at amazon.com/dp/B09QFB9DJ9.

Monday, August 8, 2022

Glitz vs Substance in College Ministry?

 A pastor friend of mine said he wanted his church college ministry to be one of "substance not glitz."  I agree with him.......50%

Substance is all about communicating the truth of the gospel.  It is about facing and talking about the tough issues of the day that students are encountering.  But, here is the thing.....doing it to an empty room is not too helpful!  Some ministries are proud of the fact that they do not have big crowds.....that must mean they are doing nitty gritty substance.  Or, it may mean they are just dull.

Here is the thing.  Everybody needs and wants some celebration.  In the stress and strain of the college world (which seems to get more stressful each year), there needs to be fun and celebration.  College freshmen come to school looking for two things....friends and fun.  I have learned that most college freshmen think like..... wait for it.....here it comes......college freshmen!  Who knew? And, the glitz can come before, after, and during.  Students handle variety well.

Even the most serious who are planning to make straight A's and go to med school or get a PhD in something look for some fun.  Expecting college freshmen to look and think like the later on adults we want them to be is at the least unrealistic.

A healthy college ministry mixes some glitz in with the substance.  Some years ago, there were two churches in one college town that were working hard at doing college ministry.  They each had large group events on Wednesday night.  One opened the fall with a month long series on world hunger.  The other opened the fall with a month long series on love, sex, and dating.  You know I don't have to finish that story.  By the way, the one who opened with the "glitzy" series is one of the most serious Bible teachers I know.

Depth is important.  Substance matters.  It matters more when there is someone there to hear it.  Doing depth with college students also means doing the practical application of what to do with the Bible truth you have just shared.  We cannot just give the Why without the How.

Some of the most "substance driven" college ministries I know have some of the "glitziest events" at the start of school.  Even I flinch at some of them.  But, choosing between substance and glitz is a false choice.  Even serious people have parties.  Why should a non-believing college student want to go to a 14 week study on the book of Revelation at the start of the semester?  One or two will.  If reaching one or two is your goal, ok.  If starting where students are and growing them to another point is your goal, where you start matters.

Here is an even crazier thought:  I think in the midst of doing the glitz.....like talking about love, sex, and dating......we can be taking about biblical stuff like forgiveness, purpose in life, commitment, etc. 

I believe Jesus laughed and had fun.  Notice that tax collectors and sinners wanted to be around Him.  I don't think that meant he had no substance.  I walked across our campus one day and there was a man standing on a ladder preaching the gospel.  I stopped to listen and I agreed with everything he was saying.  But, he was doing it in a mean and angry way......and not one student stopped to listen.  He sure was not glitzy.  He had substance.

"There is a time for everything and a season for every activity under heaven......a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance."  Ecclesiastes 3:1 and 4.

Arliss Dickerson's book, Tips for College Freshmen:  124 Tips for Fun, Faith & Good Grades, is available at amazon.com/dp/B09QFB9DJ9.


Sunday, July 31, 2022

6 Steps in Being a BETTER College Minister


 We are who we are!

The Apostle Paul said in Philippians 4:11, "I have learned to be content in whatever circumstances."   Then in verse 12 he says, "I have learned the secret of being  content in any and every situation."  I would call this "secret" comfort with who we are and our calling.  This comfort can help us do a much better job.  When we are at peace with ourselves, it is much easier to be at peace with others and focus our energy on what we are doing.

6 Steps or Realizations that Make us a BETTER College Minister:

1.  You realize your strengths.  These are the gifts and abilities God has placed your your life and wants to use.  It is not vain to admit, accept and allow God to use them to the fullest and for His glory.  To be all God wants you to be, there must be an acknowledgement of what God has put into our life.

2.  You have admitted your weaknesses and learned to offset them.  You know you are not perfect and that realization can help you serve even better.  It opens up the door to give others the opportunities to serve in areas that are not your strength.  And, you can allow them to do so.

3.  You know what you know.  Experience is a great teacher and the longer we serve the more we know what works, what does not and why.  We understand our campus situation better with each year.  But, we keep learning.

4.  You are not in your position hoping to be the pastor of First Big Church.  You know that there is nothing more important than what God has called YOU to be at this time.

5.  You have accepted your age and the strengths and weaknesses of that age.  There are blessings and strengths to every age in college ministry.  As we acknowledge that, we can lean into the strengths of our current age and be grateful for that age and the opportunities that go with it. Pretending to be another age is hard and flat just does not work.  You can be older without being grumpy!

6.  You are not trying to copy the latest poster boy or girl of college ministry.  God uses real people, not imitations of someone else.  Imitating someone else takes a lot of energy and posing.  Being yourself is freeing.

Arliss Dickerson's book, Tips for College Freshmen:  124 Tips for Fun, Faith & Good Grades, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B09QFB9DJ9.

Monday, July 25, 2022

Missouri State University BSU Raising $16.5 Million

 The Baptist Student Union at Missouri State University in Springfield is in the process of raising $16,5 million to build a commercial building adjacent to campus where their BSU Center now sits on property owned by the Missouri Convention. The location is just steps from the University President's office and is prime real estate. The project is being led by Gene Austin of the Missouri Baptist Convention and Chris Wilson, Missouri State Campus Minister.  The Missouri Baptist Convention has committed one million dollars to the development of plans and preliminary work. They have secured a grant writer and are pursuing a wide variety of funding options.

The vision and plan is to build a large multi-story building that would house apartments, businesses, the Baptist Student Union ministry and a Chinese Baptist Church that ministers to the campus.  The income from the apartments and businesses would provide funding to the BSU ministry.  In addition to the ministry space, there would be two apartments that would be provided to Campus Ministers which would augment their salaries.  

In some ways, this is similar to what has already been done in Texas and what is being discussed in Georgia. The Baptist General Convention of Texas sold their property at the University of Texas and a developer built a large multi-use commercial building and the Baptist Student Ministry purchased space in the new building to house their ministry.  The Georgia Baptist State Convention has been involved in talks with developers to possibly sell or lease their property next to five campuses to build such a multi-use commercial building. The Georgia BCM ministry would then lease space in the new buildings from funds received from the lease or sale payments. 

The vision is for the Missouri Baptist Convention to manage the new building and that the income would provide continued stability and growth for the BSU ministry and the benefit of housing to the Campus Ministers.  It is their hope that area businesses, community leaders, and generous benefactors  would believe that this project is such a major plus to the area, the university, and the city that it will receive a wide variety of financial support.

While some Baptist State Conventions are continuing or increasing support of collegiate ministries, others are looking for alternate ways to provide on going ministry funding.  Some see these approaches as positive, creative thinking and others see them as less than satisfactory.  I would encourage you to pray for Chris Wilson and Gene Austin in their leadership of this project and for different collegiate ministries that look for the best way forward in these coming days.  Let's continue to learn from each other.

Arliss Dickerson's book, Tips for College Freshmen:  124 Tips for Fun, Faith & Good Grades, is available at amazon.com/dp/B09QFB9DJ9.



Truths Affecting EVERY College Ministry

1.  EVERY leader has different strengths, gifts, and abilities that will affect the shape and style of the ministry.

Some ministries are built around the leader's ability as a speaker.  Obviously, not all leaders have that gift or ability.  That is not necessarily a negative.  It just is a difference that will determine some of the shape and style of the ministry.  That leader must identify their strength and lean into that in shaping the ministry.

2.  EVERY ministry has different resources that will affect what can and cannot be done.

Some ministries have large budgets, but most do not.  Often, we lament what we do NOT have...usually money.  Part of the key in developing the best possible ministry is identifying what resources the ministry does have and utilizing them.  Lots of volunteers, then organize and use them.  A good location, then play to that strength. Focus on what you DO have.

3.  EVERY campus is different.

Some campuses are Type A student campuses and others are much more laid back.  Some are dorm centered and others are commuter centered.  These differences not only must affect schedule, but they also affect what students will respond to and do.  Part of the reason that larger ministries are usually led by long term serving College Ministers is they have learned to read their campus and understand it.  Beware of trying to copy a ministry on a campus that is vastly different than the one where you serve.

Arliss Dickerson's book, Tips for College Freshmen:  124 Tips for Fun, Faith & Good Grades, is available at amazon.com/dp/B09QFB9DJ9.