1. Be an Example - Nothing takes the place of our personal example. We cannot expect what we do not model.
2. Express Affirmation - One of the greatest things we can do for a student for their whole life and well being is to communicate genuine affirmation of their abilities and potential. Many have never experienced much affirmation and are clueless to their possibilities.
3. Forgive - Students will let you down. Student leaders will mess up or not do what they committed to do. For their sake and your health, you need to forgive and let it go. Hold them accountable, but don't continue to hold it against them.
4. Listen - A lot of "counseling" is just being an aggressive listener. A psychiatrist told me many of his patients just needed someone to listen to them. Also, if you really listen to students, you will find out more about what in your ministry is really blessing them and encouraging them
5. Express Appreciation - Never forget that students are volunteers. Don't forget to say thanks occasionally for what they do.
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