One of the things I have fussed about in the last couple of years is that I think there is a danger of college ministries becoming "too churchy". Partly I mean that the events can be all worship and preaching and no fun and laughter. Students need healthy fun and laughter. Second, because of the increasing ignorance of the scriptures, College Ministers are more and more "preaching scripture".
Here is the Problem:
Eighteen to 23 year olds have lots of specific needs that will not be addressed in Sunday church type settings. That is one of the things that I think is so great and so important about the college ministry/local church partnership. We each are speaking into important parts of their lives in ways the other cannot.
What are some 18-23 year old Topics?
-Sexuality and Gender Issues - This is not a Sunday morning church service topic...at least in most churches. Helping students understand and navigate this tough issue in our society today is huge. If I don't have a steady boyfriend or girlfriend....am I gay? How do I relate to a friend who is going through this?
Personal Identity - Students are wrestling more than ever with understanding who they are and what to do with their lives. Are you speaking to "Spiritual Gifts" and how that plugs into who we are and how God would use us? Who are we to be as a result of accepting Christ? How does that change or affect who we are?
Healthy View of Marriage and Dating - Marriage has almost become disposable in our society today. As one young woman said the night before her wedding, "I think this will be a good first marriage for me." How do young adults view marriage and family? How can they get ready to do it by dating in a healthy way? Are guy/girl relationships more than just about sex?
Dealing with People of Very Different Ideas - There is a movement in our society today that says, "There is Your Truth and My Truth". In other words, whatever anyone thinks with sincerity is true. Really? How can young adults deal with that AND understand there are basic truths (you know like in the Bible).
As you evaluate this past school year's ministry ask yourself, "How have I or my guest speakers done in speaking to their SPECIFIC ISSUES? These are just examples to get your head working and I hope not throbbing. It is hard, but College Ministers are the BEST and if anyone can do it, College Ministers are the Ones!
Arliss Dickerson's book, Tips for College Freshmen: 124 Tips for Fun, Faith & Good Grades, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B09QFB9DJ9 and A 3 Part College Ministry Success Formula is at Amazon.com/dp/B0BZ6Q7HSV
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