The most important and valuable tool of a college ministry apart from student leaders is the College Minister. So, how does a College Minister be the best possible tool that God can use to reach a campus and bless individual students? Some would think it is personal charisma....that magnetic personality that just wows people with their presence. There are few people like that and faking it sure doesn't work. But, here are some things that all of us can do that will build who we are.
11 Actions that Build the Long Term Value and Effectiveness of a College Minister:
1. Consistency - Be the same person in all situations. People look at and see your life even when you don't realize they are looking.
2. Demonstrate or model what you are asking of students. The College Minister cannot and should not do everything in the ministry. But, they must be willing to do it and doing at least their share of the dirty little jobs it just takes for an organization to work.
3. Be willing to speak and stand for what is right even when it is not popular. But, be known for what you are for...not what you are against.
4. Don't try to impress students or pretend to be younger than you are. Students have lots of buddies. They crave and want mentors and others who can speak into their lives out of experience. They have lots of people they can hang out with and shoot baskets. But, you need to hang out some to get the opportunities to speak into their lives.
5. Speak AFFIRMATION in students lives. What do you see as gifts in their lives? How do you see God using them? Lots of students have never had anyone speak to the value and potential that someone sees in their life.
6. Develop and Train them. Teach them how to do things. Help them evaluate their experience when they serve and what they can learn from them.
7. Pray with them and teach them how to pray. When you meet with them, don't you do all the praying! Encourage them and help them learn to pray. Someone has said, "Those who have never prayed out loud have never prayed." I don't believe that is true, but I do believe learning to praying out loud with others is a step forward in praying.
8. Always express appreciation for the time and effort that students give to the ministry. Never forget that volunteers are just that...volunteers.
9. Give second chances. While holding students to a high standard in behavior and service, be ready to give students a second chance. We all mess up.
10. Model family life or healthy singleness. Lots of students come out of broken or messed up families. For your own sake as well as for your students, work on a healthy work/family balance.
11. Keep learning and growing in college ministry. No matter how long or how well you have done it, stay fresh by continually looking at and learning from others.
"One day Jesus was praying in a certain place. When he finished, one of his disciples said to him, 'Lord, teach us to pray, just as John taught his disciples.' Luke 11:1
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