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Sunday, December 7, 2025

Most Successful College Ministers Are Workhorses....Not Show Horses!

 Occasionally, people who are looking for a College Minister for their vacant position will call me and indicate they want someone who is a great speaker.  Could I recommend someone? I know a few that are good speakers and maybe one or two that are great speakers.

They are looking for someone that can instantly double or triple their ministry with their speaking.  But, here is the problem with that formula....IF that is all it is built on, when the great speaker leaves, many of those who were attracted will instantly disappear also.  Usually there is no structure to support that ministry and the students involved.

I think there is probably a little too much emphasis being put on College Ministers being speakers these days.  Don't get me wrong, I am all about College Ministers being as good of a speaker as possible.....I was a Speech Major!  I love a big crowd.  Never had as many as I had hoped to have at any event!

But, most of the great College Ministers I know are Work Horses!  They put one good year on top of another.  They build into students' lives individually and they grow student leaders for service in God's Kingdom later as well as blessing the ministry on campus as they are developing.  Collins English Dictionary defines a Work Horse this way...."they can be relied on to do a large amount of work, especially work that is dull or routine."

Two Key Words:  Dull and Routine!  

Don't worry about being a Show Horse or a Rainmaker......be willing to do the dull and routine again and again and again.  Talk to freshmen, listen to them, challenge them.  Help that student with a good personality be a good leader and know how to lead a meeting.  Teach that shy kid how to share their testimony with a friend.  Help a student who has really messed up sense God's forgiveness in their life and that God can still use them.

But, be the best speaker you can be......there is nothing holy about being dull!

Arliss Dickerson is a college ministry advocate, author, and sometimes pretty good speaker.  Check out some of his resources here:  Amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN or Amazon.com/dp/B0FFTHL6HP.


Monday, December 1, 2025

As Your Semester Ends and Before the Next One Starts

 Before Your Semester Ends:

1. Have a de-brief with your key leaders.  It can be a formal evaluation or just go to lunch with some, ask some questions and listen.  What went well?  What do we need to learn from this semester?

2.  Invite 4 or 5 freshmen for coffee or coke.  Ask some questions and listen.  Why did they connect and why did some of their friends not connect or stay connected?

3.  Make a list of folks that disappeared as the semester progressed.  In the busyness of the semester, it is easy to not realize some have not continued to be involved.  If you have some big end of the semester event or Christmas party, send them an individual message about it and wish them well on their finals.

Before the Next Semester Starts:

1.  Write PERSONAL thank you notes to contributors.  Give an example of something that went well or that their gift helped make possible.

2.  Remember that some people do year end giving due to bonuses, profit sharing, or just catching up on giving.  Do something that puts your ministry on their radar.  Send a newsletter to alums or post something on your website.  Post something on Facebook about the semester and give a link to give.  Make sure there is an address somewhere for those that do not do on-line giving.

3.  Look back at the list of freshman whose names were given to you by pastors or friends last summer.  For those that never showed, make a personal contact.  They were sent to you because whomever sent it saw them as a possible key leader or they especially needed your ministry.

4.  If you are speaking for your weekly event, lay out your topics and scripture.  You can always change as the semester goes along.

Arliss Dickerson is a college ministry advocate, author, and sometimes speaker.  Check out some of his materials here:  Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX 

Sunday, November 23, 2025

Collegiate Ministry Discipleship Groups by Morgan Owen

Morgan Owen is the Baptist Campus Minister at The University of Tennessee at Martin.

Around 15 years ago we changed how we did small groups.  We went all in on gender specific small groups.  Instead of guys meeting in separate groups throughout the week, we set a specific night of the week as Men's Discipleship (we call it ManUp.). I got the  idea from someone who said that men are wired towards "conferences"....all guys gathering together to learn, grow, and have accountability and to feel like one unit (much like the values of a fraternity);

We meet all together on Thursday nights for a lesson from a speaker (20-25 minutes) and then the guys break up up into small groups led by ManUp leaders.  The ManUp leaders are interviewed in the spring and lead the following school year.  Each ManUp group has co-leaders.  Staff determines the theme for the semester and communicates with individuals to speak (pastors, youth pastors, professors, alumni) on the topics/scripture provided to them.  ManUp leaders are given discussion questions ahead of time to prepare.  Most of our speakers provide an outline that give focus and direction.  

This worked so well that a few years later our ladies asked to have the same approach, which we call Radiant.  Before this approach, we would have around 40-45 involved in small groups with both genders.  In the years following this change we were having 65-70 attending.  We've seen as high as 120 involved in ManUp and Radiant combined.

This is reprinted with Mo's permission from a comment he made in an on-line collegiate ministry discussion group. Are you doing something different in this area that you want to share?

Arliss Dickerson is a college ministry advocate, author, and sometimes speaker.  You can check out some of his resources here:  Reaching More College Students Amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN  and A 3 Part College Ministry Success Formula at Amazon.com/dp/B0BZ6Q7HSV


Friday, November 14, 2025

Nostalgia Vs. Principles

 Mark Robinson, Baptist Collegiate Ministry leader for Louisiana, had a great post on Facebook recently about being in a meeting where young and old heads were planning a mission trip.  The old head wanted to do it like they had always done it in the past.  The younger guy said, "I refuse to be held hostage by Legacy Thinking.

I want to speak to both sides of sides of that (and from an old guy viewpoint).  

Students have changed and we must adapt to the changes.  If we think college students act and behave....and think like they did years ago, we are definitely out of touch.  We must be continually learning and adjusting.  Plus, every campus is a little different every year.  The ebb and flow changes at least slightly.

BUT, some things are principle driven.  Beware of doing something just because it is the latest thing.  I believe there are principles in college ministry, just like every ministry, that never change.  We must continually be about identifying and understanding those principles.  Is this new thing principle driven or is it just a fad that will soon pass away?

I was confronted once by a young and fairly new College Minister who said, "You do college ministry the old fashioned way."  He had recently come to a campus and had thrown out their program of Freshmen Ministry to do something entirely different.  I don't know the nice way to say this.  His new way was reaching far less than the old way had the year before.  He was reaching way less than our "old fashioned way" was reaching.  In two or three years he had gone on to another job.

Change, adapt, and don't just say, "That is the way we have always done it."  But, beware of falling prey to the bright and shiny object that is just new, but not principle driven.

One of the reasons I am high on experienced College Ministers mentoring new College Ministers is I think they both learn and benefit.  The new guy gets some principle driven facts and the old guy gets some of the new thinking.  College Ministry is better on both ends as a result.

Beware of "Legacy Thinking" and don't put something down because it has been done that way for a long time.  Look for the Principle!

Arliss Dickerson is a college ministry advocate, writer, and once in a while speaker.  Check out his college ministry resources here:  Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX. and here:  Amazon.com/dp/B0FFTHL6HP


Thursday, November 6, 2025

College Ministers Quick Tip #8 You are the FACE of the Ministry

Parents look at who they want their students to model themselves after and be mentored by.  Potential Donors want to invest in the ministry of someone in whom they believe.  Pastors and Youth Ministers want to have confidence in who they are sending students to.

You are that face!  It is not about ego.  People identify with people.  You must be responsible to embody the ministry that you lead. No one expects it to be any different than you are.

Arliss Dickerson is a college ministry advocate and author.  Check some his resources out here: Amazon.com/dp/B0FFTHL6HP.

 

Monday, November 3, 2025

College Ministers Quick Tip #7 You are more Critical than a Pastor

 God calls thousands of pastors. He only calls a few hundred College Ministers. Never ever underestimate the high calling of college ministry. It is perhaps the most crucial ministry of our time and this generation. YOU are one of the chosen and few. 

Arliss Dickerson is a college ministry advocate and author. Check out his resources for College Ministers and students at Amazon.com/dp/B0FFTHL6HP

Wednesday, October 29, 2025

Georgia Baptist Collegiate Ministry's 3 Areas of Competency

 Beverly Parrish Skinner, who leads the Baptist Collegiate Ministry in Georgia, shared with me a 360 Assessment for Campus Ministers that she worked with an organization called Corpus (Corpusvitae.org) to develop.  Their main focus is church revitalization and pastoral leadership.  But, they worked with Beverly to develop this tool that shows 3 areas of core competencies and skillsets within each of these for Campus Ministers.

Here are the 3 Core Skill Sets with 3 areas of Competency under each:

Cultural Awareness

    -Adaptive to Change

    -Cultural Sensitivity

    -Multi-Directional Relationships

Spiritual Competence

    -High Self Awareness

    -Models Spiritual Vibrancy

    -Teaches the Bible

Leadership Capacity

    -Leads with Vision and Strategy

    -Administrative Capabilities

    -Disciple Multiplier

Here are the 5 Areas that College Ministry Alums said made the difference in their lives.

Highly Relational

Role Model

Mentor/Discipler

Developed Leaders

Taught the Bible and made it Relevant to the College Experience.

My purpose in sharing these is for your personal evaluation as a veteran College Minister and to help newer College Ministers not to have to learn the things that make a difference the hard way.

"Let the wise listen and increase their learning, and let the discerning get good counsel."  Proverbs 1:5

Arliss Dickerson is a college ministry advocate and author.  Check out "A College Ministry Formula" at Amazon.com/dp/B0FFTHL6HP.


Sunday, October 26, 2025

College Ministers Quick Tip #6

You NEVER know all the ways God is using what you are doing.

It takes years and even eternity to see the good you have done.  Long time Campus Ministers report getting letters from former students they do not even remember saying, "You made the difference in my life."  Work your hardest and smartest and trust God is using it way beyond your knowledge.

Arliss Dickerson is a college ministry advocate and writer.  Check out "A College Ministry Formula" here:Amazon.com/dp/B0FFTHL6HP

Friday, October 24, 2025

Everything I Know About College Ministry in ONE SENTENCE!

 I was asked to say everything I knew about college ministry in one sentence at one point.  I wrote a Blog Article on it that has been trending lately.  So, here it is in a little more condensed form of that trending article.

Everything I know about College Ministry in ONE SENTENCE:  Be you on the campus where you are.

1.  Be you.  First, God wants to use who you are.  His will for us is written into our gifts, abilities, and interests.  Some are speakers; some are organizers, and some are leader types.  The strength of our ministry is usually tied to who we are.  It will always reflect us.  Our priorities will shine through.  We must identify what we do well and do everything possible to use that for the benefit of the ministry.  Also, we have to recognize that our strengths may change and adapt through the years....so, we must adapt.  We also have to recognize our weaknesses and mitigate those thru enlisting and allowing others to fill that void.

2.  Where you are.  Every campus is different. You cannot do exactly what you or someone else has done somewhere else.  We must be students of our campus.  It means understanding the general type student and seeing what the administration does that affects the ministry or CAN affect the ministry.  What is going on with other ministries?  How does that affect our ministry?  What are the resources available or that need to come?  Plus, every campus changes a little bit every year.  Your student leaders' strengths and abilities vary a little every year.  You much adjust to that in what and how you do.

Arliss Dickerson is a college ministry advocate and author.  Check out his college ministry books here:  Amazon.com/dp/B0BZ6Q7HSV.

Thursday, October 23, 2025

5 Things College Ministry Alums Say Made the Difference

I posted on Facebook the question, "Who was the best College Minister you have known and what was the characteristic or practice that made them that way?" 

I was flooded with responses.  Many naming who their Campus Minister had been and writing a paragraph about them or listing all the great things they had done.  As I read through all of them, there were 5 Characteristics or practices that summed up what made them matter in those former students' lives.  They are not in any particular order.

Here are the 5 Practices and Characteristics of these much loved College Ministers:

Highly Relational

Role Model

Mentor/Discipler

Developed Leaders

Taught the Bible and Made it Relevant to the College Experience. 

I am always studying and trying to learn how College Ministers can best focus and spend their time and energy that affects college students' lives for Christ.  These five areas may be one of the best lists of what it means to be an effective College Minister.

How are you doing in these 5 areas?  Give some thought to how you can best be intentional in each AND is there an area you need to invest a bit more time and effort?

Arliss Dickerson is a college ministry advocate and author whose college ministry books may be found at Amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN.


Monday, October 20, 2025

College Ministers Quick Tip #5

What your meeting space FEELS like affects everything.

-Is it clean?

-Is it obviously prepared and set up?

-Have enough chairs....but not TOO many.....lots and lots of empty chairs is discouraging.

-When someone walks into a room, they register a conscious or unconscious feeling or reaction to the room.

-Their FEELING affects their response to the event.

-Is your event space as inviting as you can make it?

Check out A College Ministry Success Formula Amazon.com/dp/B0BZ6Q7HSV and Reaching MORE Students Amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN.


Monday, October 13, 2025

Where are the Crossroads on Your Campus?

 Where are the Crossroads on your campus?  Do you utilize the Crossroads on your campus?

A Crossroad is defined as, "A road that crosses a main road or joins two main roads.

On a college campus it is where a large number of students pass by each day or congregate.  Some obvious examples would be Cafeterias and Food Courts.  When I was at ASU, I required each of our staff to eat in the cafeteria each week and we paid for it.  One of our one year Assistants one time told me I was wasting my money paying for her to eat there because she did not like the food and did not eat much.  I told her I didn't care if she ate anything or not that as far as I was concerned, the food was free and the charge was a ticket to get in and talk to people.  She was great at that.

Are there spots on your campus that a large number of students walk by every day?  Should you arrange your schedule to be standing there at certain times on particular days?  Should you place some sort of A-frame sign there on your event days?  

But a caution!  If you have signs that you put out that say, "Today" or "Tonight".  Take them in when that day is done.  When signs like that stay out all the time, students no longer "see" them.  They just become a part of the landscape.  If they are out, that means they are current and it is happening!

If you have 3 or 4 of these signs, what about moving them around at different times of the day? Oh I know, you are too busy and important to do that, right?  Wonder what students you might see and talk to when you are doing it?

What are the times of the day that most students are out on campus?  Do you have it in your calendar to be out on campus during that time?

Identify and utilize the crossroads of your campus to affect the lives of students who are at a crossroad in their life!

Walk across the campus and through the Student Center EVERY day!

Check out A 3 Part College Ministry Success Formula Amazon.com/dp/B0BZ6Q7HSV  and Reaching MORE College Students Amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN.


Wednesday, October 8, 2025

College Ministers Quick Tip #4

 A Ministry reflects both the STRENGTHS and WEAKNESSES of its leader.

The longer we lead a ministry, the more it will look like us in its strengths and weaknesses.

First, we must realize and admit what our weaknesses are.

Second, we must make sure that we are maximizing our strengths and not just getting by in that area because it is easy for us. But, make sure your strengths are benefitting the ministry....not just being enjoyable and easy for you.

Third, acknowledge those weak points and do two things.  Commit to growth in those areas and even more importantly, recruit people who are strong and gifted in the areas that are not your strong point.  This can be either students or volunteers.  Then, do everything possible to set them up for success in those areas.

You will likely need someone on the outside to help you see and evaluate clearly in these two areas.

Check out Fixing a Broken College Ministry at Amazon.com/dp/B0CXTCTNB1 and Reaching MORE College Students Amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN.

Monday, October 6, 2025

Charisma is WAY Overrated!

 The most important and valuable tool of a college ministry apart from student leaders is the College Minister.  So, how does a College Minister be the best possible tool that God can use to reach a campus and bless individual students?  Some would think it is personal charisma....that magnetic personality that just wows people with their presence.  There are few people like that and faking it sure doesn't work.  But, here are some things that all of us can do that will build who we are.

11 Actions that Build the Long Term Value and Effectiveness of a College Minister:

1.  Consistency - Be the same person in all situations.  People look at and see your life even when you don't realize they are looking.

2.  Demonstrate or model what you are asking of students.  The College Minister cannot and should not do everything in the ministry.  But, they must be willing to do it and doing at least their share of the dirty little jobs it just takes for an organization to work.

3.  Be willing to speak and stand for what is right even when it is not popular.  But, be known for what you are for...not what you are against.  

4. Don't try to impress students or pretend to be younger than you are.  Students have lots of buddies.  They crave and want mentors and others who can speak into their lives out of experience.  They have lots of people they can hang out with and shoot baskets.  But, you need to hang out some to get the opportunities to speak into their lives.

5.  Speak AFFIRMATION in students lives.  What do you see as gifts in their lives?  How do you see God using them?  Lots of students have never had anyone speak to the value and potential that someone sees in their life.

6.  Develop and Train them.  Teach them how to do things.  Help them evaluate their experience when they serve and what they can learn from them.

7.  Pray with them and teach them how to pray.  When you meet with them, don't you do all the praying!  Encourage them and help them learn to pray.  Someone has said, "Those who have never prayed out loud have never prayed."  I don't believe that is true, but I do believe learning to praying out loud with others is a step forward in praying.

8.  Always express appreciation for the time and effort that students give to the ministry.  Never forget that volunteers are just that...volunteers.

9.  Give second chances.  While holding students to a high standard in behavior and service, be ready to give students a second chance.  We all mess up.

10.  Model family life or healthy singleness.  Lots of students come out of broken or messed up families.  For your own sake as well as for your students, work on a healthy work/family balance.

11.  Keep learning and growing in college ministry.  No matter how long or how well you have done it, stay fresh by continually looking at and learning from others.

"One day Jesus was praying in a certain place.  When he finished, one of his disciples said to him, 'Lord, teach us to pray, just as John taught his disciples.' Luke 11:1

Check out A College Ministry Formula, Amzon.com/dp/B0FFTHL6HP and  Reaching MORE College Students Amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN

Wednesday, October 1, 2025

College Ministers Quick Tip #3

 You have to ADMINISTRATE to multiply.

College Ministers tend to be people centered and often let the administration slide.  Good administration organizes, equips, and funds others to minister.

If you want to lead a ministry larger than your personal ministry, you must administrate well.  Good administration does not take away from ministry.....it MULTIPLIES it.

Check out The College Minister's Library Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX

Sunday, September 28, 2025

Don't Grouse with Your Spouse! 5 Tips for College Ministry Home Life

 "No, you did not tell me you were going to be gone then!"  We have had that conversation lots of times at my house.  How about you?  Those who work in college ministry have crazy schedules and work at odd times.  It takes a spouse who either shares God's calling to college ministry or is committed to that calling in their spouse's life.

But, we are wrong, if we think they just need to understand.  Even when your spouse does understand, we must work at having the best possible home life and relationship with our spouse and children.  It is not just the spouse's responsibility to deal with it.

Here are 5 Suggestions for a Better Home Life in the College Ministry World:

1.  Keep a calendar at home that has your work and travel dates, special events, etc on it.  This is especially important if it is something they are invited to or need to attend.

2.  Do your best to be home when you say you will or call when you are running behind schedule.  You will run behind schedule often, but letting your spouse know where you are or what is going on makes a difference!

3.  Arrange your schedule so you can pick up your kids from school once a week or be home when they get there.  That communicates a ton and blesses you with that time, especially with young children.  There will come a time when they are grown and gone...you never get that time back.  Don't lose it.

4.  Remember and remind yourself that your spouse is more important than your best student!  Your best student leader quitting is painful.....but your spouse "quitting" is catastrophic!!!

5.  Have a standing "Lunch Day Date".  When kids are in school it does not require a baby sitter.  Lunch is cheaper.  An every week forty-five minute lunch might be even better than a once a month date night.  Doing both is a big winner.

Check out The College Minister's Library at Amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN

Tuesday, September 23, 2025

Quick Tips for College Ministers #2

 Quick Tip #2

MENTORING is key and does not have to be complicated.

1.  Set a regular time to meet with individual leaders or students you see as having real potential.

2.  Talk about what is going on in their life....important stuff, little stuff. Ask questions. LISTEN!

3.  Affirm the strengths, gifts, and potential you see in them.  Many have never had anyone do that.

4.  Help them answer and deal with their faith questions.

5.  Talk about leadership issues.  Who is the best leader or worst leader they have seen?  Why?

6.  Help them evaluate and learn from their own leadership experiences.

7.  Be lovingly honest with them.  If you are not honest, you are not mentoring.

Check out The College Minister's Library:  Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX.

Monday, September 22, 2025

10 Guidelines for College Ministers

 1.  Be the best YOU possible.  You are the most important and valuable tool for your college ministry.

2.  Build up and affirm students.  Deal with them according to their potential, not just who they are now.

3.  Practice balance in family, work, exercise, and worship.  Your children will grow up and leave.  Don't regret your lack of quality time with them.

4.  Communicate continually to others what you are doing and trying to do.

5.  Spend excessively wisely on difference makers.

6.  Keep learning from others.

7.  Vent to someone besides your spouse all the time.

8.  Connect to and work with school officials as much as possible and when possible.  It will come back to you.

9.  Mentor younger College Ministers.  It builds the kingdom AND will benefit you.

10.  Evaluate continually and tweak as needed.

Arliss Dickerson is a college ministry advocate, blogger and author.

Check out The College Minister's Library at Amazon.com/dp/B0FFTHL6HP.

Wednesday, September 17, 2025

Quick Tips for College Ministers #1

 I am starting a new series, where I will post "Quick Tips for College Ministers" instead of a full blown blog article every time.  

Quick Tip #1

There is a SEASON for everything

College ministry is  broken into seasons. There are multiple and different tasks to be done in each.  But, each has a focus.  Summer is for preparation and incoming contacts.  Fall is for enlistment.  Christmas is for financial book work, end of year giving, and thank you's.  Spring is for discipleship and leadership training.

Recognize and utilize each season to the fullest. Your ministry will do better and YOU will do better over the long term.


Check out The College Minister's Library at Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX.

Monday, September 15, 2025

12 Million College Students and Your Ministry

 It just bugs me to know there are 12 million full time college students and all our ministries combined are reaching about 5%. At least this is the best guess of those who work with different college ministries nationally.

After surviving the crazy start of school and all the special events, now is a good time to stop and think a little bit.  What did we learn from our efforts the first two or three weeks that we need to file away for next year?  What worked; what did not work, and what was not worth the time, effort, and money it cost?

But here is a crazy thought......Should you make some adjustment to your ministry now?  I often advocate AGAINST those that are always playing around and changing things.  BUT, is there some campus situation that has changed that you did not anticipate?  Is the time for your weekly meeting just a little off or has the crowd outpaced what you anticipated?  Should you adjust your time or should you add an additional time on the same night?

Or, should you stop doing something you are doing because it is not working or taking too much time and effort?  Would it be better to invest that time and sweat in something else?

A few years back I wrote an article entitled, "5 Ways to Enlarge Your Ministry.....Only #5 is Guaranteed."  As crazy as it may seem, let me throw out a couple of those now.

    Combine multiple events into one night.  Should your freshmen family groups meet after your everybody large group event?

    Reduce your events to focus on one or two.  Is your main event getting the focus, effort, and energy that it needs for it to be all you want and need it to be?

    Ask each of your leadership teams to adopt one campus group to pray for, connect to, and reach out to.  No, I am not advocating, doubling what you ask them to do or to drop what they have committed to do.  Just see about making friends in another campus group.  And ask in leadership meeting if anyone has a good story to tell about their new friends or connections.

I did share in that article the GUARANTEED way to reach more students that a very few do.  It is simple; they lie about their numbers!  Don't do it.  Also, don't "Estimate".  You are being dishonest with yourself as well as others.  I am all about counting.  It helps you know where you are and if you keep records through the years, it helps remind you about the rhythm of the semester.  Some weeks are just always smaller.  It is that first big test week, etc. You and your ministry have not done anything wrong.

One last thing:  Someone has said that "People determine within the first 5 to 10 minutes whether they will return to a new event."  How is the 10 minutes BEFORE your event starts?  Is there music playing (even NON-Christian music), Is it obvious where to go and how to get in?  Are people being greeted and made to feel welcome?  And, does it start on time?

About that 12 million.....I am still bummed about that 5% thing.  Anything YOU can do at this point to increase it by 3 or 4 more students?

This article was adapted from "Reaching MORE College Students" Amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN


Tuesday, September 9, 2025

Common Characteristics of LARGER College Ministries

 We can always learn from those who have been there and done that.....and in college ministry they probably have the tee shirt. Are there commonalities of larger and growing college ministries that can benefit all of us?  Unfortunately, there is not nearly the formal research done in the area of college as there is in local church growth.  Yet, there has been some done which can benefit your thinking and planning.

In 2012 Tim Casteel, Cru Leader at the University of Arkansas, did a study of some of the larger Cru ministries and listed these common characteristics. While it has been a while since he compiled this information, I strongly believe the accuracy of it still holds.

5 Common Characteristics of Large Cru Ministries:

1.  Large Staff

2.  Long Term Leader

3.  Strong student leaders who are given much responsibility

4.  Strong/Intentional small group ministry

5.  They are THE ministry on campus (No other ministry is as large).

For some years I worked as a part time College Ministry Consultant for Lifeway Christian Resources of the Southern Baptist Convention.  In that role, I was able to travel the country and see and hear a lot about a wide variety of Baptist Collegiate Ministries.  These are my observations.

7 Common Characteristics of Large Baptist Collegiate Ministries:

1.  Long Term Leader

2.  Strong tradition/Long term presence on campus

3.  Excellent or large facilities

4.  Specific/Intentional Freshmen Ministry

5.  A flagship type campus

6.  Usually THE ministry on campus

7.  Strong financial support by churches, alumni, interested individuals, or a combination of all.

Obviously, you cannot wave a magic wand and suddenly have any or all these characteristics.  But, any ministry can be more deliberate and intentional in Freshmen Ministry.  Any ministry can work at developing strong student leaders and allow them to do their thing.  You can work at developing your financial resources.  Money does not make a ministry, but it is hard to have much ministry apart from financial resources. As a College Minister, you can determine to plant your life somewhere, unless God leads you further.  A friend of mine used to say in order to demonstrate his commitment to a particular campus, "I have gone there to die there." 

One BIG TAKE-AWAY:  Reaching MORE students always starts with and involves the leader.

This article is adapted from Reaching MORE College Students Amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN.


Thursday, September 4, 2025

WHY Does College Ministry REALLY Matter??

 Does college ministry really matter?  Is that just a luxury that maybe we don't need to waste our money on?

2 Reasons College Ministry Matters:

1.  Psychologists say the two greatest times of change in a person's life are Birth to Age One and High School Graduation to Christmas.

2.  Ryan Burge, the Christian Pollster, asked a group of "Non-Religious" when they left faith.  The most mentioned age was 18.

I have a friend who was just recently told by her primary care physician that she had colon cancer.  Her first response was, "Who is the best doctor in this field that I should go see?'  She likes her regular doctor just fine, but to get the best possible outcome, she wants somebody who lives and breathes her issue all the time.  She wants a specialist.

College Ministry is a specialty in ministry. Pastors and other church staff members do a great job of caring for all types of people in all age categories and situations.  To say that it is time to call in a specialist is not to denigrate someone else.  It is the realization of a special need that needs addressing.  If young people are walking away from faith, as we know many are, then why not call in a specialist?

What are the "Special" Issues?

College is a time of being exposed to new ideas and new concepts.  One of the questions students begin to ask is, "How does my faith hold up in light of my new knowledge?"

A large number of college students marry someone they meet in college.  Should this key life decision be made in the absence of a Christian perspective and guidance?

Many start to college knowing what they want to do with their life and change.  Others start with no clue what they want to do.  Shouldn't a Christian understanding of calling, understanding spiritual gifts, and life purpose be part of this vocational decision?

Students come to college campuses from all over the world. Many have never heard the Christian Gospel and come from countries that do not allow Christian missionaries.  What if many of these hear and respond to the Christian Gospel and return to their closed country as a Christian?

One of the purposes of college is to prepare future leaders. Most, if not all Governmental leaders attend college and then play key roles in shaping our country and even the entire world.  Isn't shaping future leaders a key opportunity and need?

Churches are having an increasingly difficult time finding pastors as fewer young adults are expressing a call to vocational ministry.  When college students are making decisions about life direction, wouldn't it be nice to have someone talking about Christian vocations and calling in this crucial period?  Many high school students express an interest or calling to vocational ministry but do not continue with it.  College Ministers mentor those who have a calling to ministry.

College ministries invest in student leaders and give them opportunities to speak, sing, lead, etc. which prepares them more for service in the days to come. This prepares both Vocational Ministry leaders and lay leaders. Experience matters!

College is a unique time in the life and requires specific and unique applications by those specifically qualified to do it.

When my car is not running right, I want a Mechanic...not a Car Salesman.  When I am diagnosed with cancer, I want an Oncologist.  When we are hiring a football coach, we don't hire a basketball coach.  When someone goes to college, we need a College Minister!

The sooner we learn College Ministry is a specialty, the sooner we will do a better job of discipling and reaching young adults for Christian faith and service.

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Monday, September 1, 2025

Why Students Go Missing from Your College Ministry

 Everyone who serves in college ministry experiences students dropping out.  One common times this happens for freshmen is around the third or fourth week of school.

Common Reasons Students Drop Out:

1.  Their survival needs have been met.  Many freshmen start attending a ministry looking for friends and a sense of belonging.  As the school year develops, those needs are met by other groups and other friendships have developed.

2.  Reality Week hits for freshmen.  I call the third or fourth week of the fall semester Reality Week for Freshmen.  All the Welcome Parties and free food have ended and the first test happens.  Suddenly, there is the realization that they are going to have to study.....at least some.  That high school honor graduate gets their first D or F on a test.  They then make the other extreme route......"I'm going to do nothing but go to class and study.

3.  There are personality clashes, friendships or boy friend/girl friend breakups.  Just as relationships draw a student to a ministry and keep them connected, breakups in friendships drive them away.

4.  Schedules become more complicated especially for upperclassmen.  There are labs that meet at all hours.  There is hospital observation for health care students.  There are school observations for education majors.  There are internships and part time jobs.  This issue is a reminder of the value of always being keenly aware of the best time and day for your large group event.  This can change year to year.  It also is one reason that some ministries do a twice in one evening meeting, such as 7:00 and 9:00.  That is not just for space issues.

5.  Some Juniors and Seniors may feel they have done all the ministry has to offer.  Is everything just like it was for their previous two years?  Have they attended all the events?  This can be especially true for upperclassmen who are not in a leadership role.

6.  Church and Campus Ministry Overload.  If a student is active in a campus based ministry and a church based ministry, they may simply feel that they cannot give major time to both....especially as classes get harder and more demanding.  This also is a reminder of the necessity of campus ministries and church ministries not being identical in what they offer.  There are good reasons to be involved in both.

7.  A student may drop out when they sense their beliefs and those presented by the ministry  are different.  Again, a student connects to a ministry for a variety of reasons.  If you know that a student is leaving or has left over theological differences, do your best to help them connect to another ministry and leave well.  It is not unusual for a student to leave for that reason, but never get connected somewhere else.

8.  They drop out due to personal behavior.  Sometimes a student will do something inconsistent with their moral code and beliefs.  Their sense of guilt may drive them away from your ministry. Do everything possible to keep your relationship warm with them.

9.  The Most Frustrating One:  When there is mis-behavior by students in key leadership roles that cast a bad light on the ministry as a whole. This is part of helping student leaders be aware of how their lifestyle affects the ministry.  We must also deal lovingly with student leaders when we are aware of some behavior that is harmful not just to the ministry, but to them.  This is why some ministries maintain an "Honor Code" commitment.  But, we should not make our student leaders feel we are creeping around looking over their shoulders all the time to check on them.

As College Ministers, we must do everything possible to keep a positive relationship to students who have dropped out.  Be positive and encouraging to them when you see them on campus.  If they have dropped to do more at church, let them know you understand and are good with that.  If they drop church to do more on campus, help them see the need to at least maintain a "Sunday Connection" and to know they can do that and not participate in everything the college ministry has to offer.

Remember, you are NOT weird or or your ministry a FAILURE when students drop out.  It happens in every ministry and no one has a big of a crowd the last week of the semester as they did the first week of the semester!  Also, students can disappear one year and come back the next.  It happens!

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Tuesday, August 26, 2025

Right, Wrong Or Different in College Ministry?

 Some years ago when I was fortunate enough to get to travel the country some helping with different college ministries. I learned something very powerful.....at least for me.  There is more than one way to do college ministry right and well.  I think prior to that I thought there was really only one way (with a few variations) to do it well and right,

Two things go into the "Right Way" to do College Ministry:

1.  The setting.  I have written and spoken many times that what we do must fit the campus where we are.  Four year campuses have a different vibe than two year campuses.  Primarily commuter campuses are very different from primarily residential campuses.  Different things work and don't work on these different campuses.

BUT, HERE IS A KEY THING:

2.  Different people can make different things work.  There can be a RIGHT approach for your campus, but it not be an approach YOU can make work.  Due to giftedness, experience, and tenure, different people can make different things work.

You may have a right strategy and it be right for that campus.....BUT.....it is not a method or approach that YOU can make work  God is always at work through our giftedness.  

Some Questions to Ask:

Why are you doing the approach or strategy you are doing?  Did you inherit it?  Or, have you seen it be successful somewhere else?  Do you see it working and are you comfortable with it?

The MOST IMPORTANT Question:  What is YOUR giftedness?  Are you the big crowd person or are you a behind the scenes organizer?   Are you a speaker or are you a one-to-discipler?  What gets your juices flowing?

It is still a MYSTERY!  As much as I believe and have seen that different people can make different things work, I still do not understand totally why it is true. 

But, here is the OVER SIMPLE truth:  You may have to try different things (that is part of experience) until you see what YOU can make work best.  Do the things YOU can make work and God will use them!  Let me add a HOWEVER:  Everything must be done within the confines of what you are being paid to do and what is expected of you.  Don't lose sight of that.

But, there are still some principles that apply in EVERY situation AND you can learn from old pros without having to start from scratch.  You can shorten your learning curve by watching and learning some someone who is farther down the road.  BEWARE of thinking you are an expert!

I Corinthians 12:4-6 (NIV):  There are different  kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them.  There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord.  There are different kinds of work, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work.

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Tuesday, August 19, 2025

Glitz vs Substance in College Ministry

A pastor said to me that he wanted his church college ministry to be one of "substance not glitz" and I agree with him.....some, a little, maybe 50%.  And, I don't think it is just because I am shallow.

To me, substance in college ministry is all about communicating the truth of the Gospel to a specific audience.   It is about facing and talking about the tough issues of the day and those students are encountering.  It is about helping them see how the Gospel connects to and speaks to those issues.  Ryan Burge, the Christian Pollster, recently shared that in a survey of 2400 "Non-religious" asked when they walked away from faith, the most mentioned age was 18.

I am all about substance, but doing it to an empty room is not too helpful!!  Some ministries are proud of the fact they do not have big crowds.....that must mean they are doing nitty gritty substance....or it just may mean they are plain dull or do not know how to speak to their audience.

Beware of being PROUD of your small crowd!

I shared recently that I had read someone who said, "A ministry should be like a swimming pool with a shallow end and a deep end.  Some are not ready to swim in the deep end."  I could not love that statement and truth more.

Let's call Glitz the Shallow End.  Freshmen come to college looking for two things:  Friends and Fun.  I am all about college ministries offering some glitz that has some substance tied to it.  My last year or so at Arkansas State, our Tech Team loved wiring up new things and adding dimensions.  Somewhere they came up with a rotating glitter ball and they immediately installed it in the middle of the ceiling of our chapel area.  They loved to turn it on in the middle of one of the upbeat songs before I spoke.  I hated it!  The students loved it!  Also, a very serious event can have some fun and glitz either before or after the serious event.

Some years ago, there were two college churches in our town that were working hard to reach students.  One opened the fall with a month long series on world hunger.  The other opened the fall with a month long series on love, sex, and dating.  Guess where all the freshmen went.  And, the College Minister there is one of the most serious Bible teachers I know.  He knew most freshmen start in the shallow end.

Some of the most "substance driven" college ministries I know have some of the "glitziest events" at the start of school. I flinch at some of them.  I believe choosing between glitz and substance is a false choice.  I am not arguing anything is ok to draw a crowd.  Years ago, I spoke for a weekend event held at their campus center.  On Friday night there was a Beer Bust next door.  They had a bigger crowd than we did.  I am not arguing that anything that draws a crowd is okay.  But, fun and appealing is not necessarily of the devil!

I believe that Jesus laughed and had fun.  Notice that tax collectors and other sinners wanted to be around him.  I don't think that meant Jesus had no substance.

I walked across the campus one day and there was a man standing on a ladder screaming the Gospel.  Students were walking all around and no one was stopping to listen.  I stayed for a while and agreed with everything he was saying.  But, no students were stopping to listen.  He had substance.  He sure was not glitzy.

I believe more than ever we MUST be reaching out to and speaking to 18 year olds about the Gospel and how to apply it to life.  But, we also much remember that they will think and act like.....wait for it......18 year olds. 

 I hope and pray this is your best fall semester ever!

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Monday, August 11, 2025

College Ministry Outreach and Statistics!

Adam Venters, BCM College Minister at the University of South Carolina, as a result of his own experience and talking with other College Ministers, said that he believes the response rate to contacts of students attending following a contact is 10% to 12%.

Another BCM College Minister that I spoke with who heard Adam say this went back and checked his contacts and the response rate of incoming freshmen signing up for an event he has promoted and he said, "It was 11.4%.  

So, what is the bottom line?  It is what we have always assumed, but here it is in figures:  To reach more, we must contact more.  Getting names and contact information is key to our ministry!  Are there MORE and NEW ways to get lists or contact information of incoming freshmen?

Venters says, "If you want 200 at an event, you must contact 2,000."  Obviously, that is a bit daunting when put in those terms.  It tells us something we have always sensed, but this puts it in more concrete terms.  The number of freshmen contacts we have pretty much determines the size of our freshmen response.  

You may say that this does not take into account Personal Invitations by upperclassmen and you would be correct.  Or, does the same 10% to 12% apply to personal invitations????  While I have no "evidence" to back it up, I would say the response rate to a personal invitation is much higher.

Here are some reminders of figures of which you are probably aware:

20% to 30% of emails are opened.

97% of Text Messages are opened with 90% read within 3 minutes.

One former College Minister who was an excellent speaker and known for having large crowds at his worship events said, "You should spend as much time personally texting and inviting students to the event as you do preparing to speak at it."

Does your experience bear out the 10% to 12% response rate?

What if you have NO Contact Info for incoming freshmen???  That increases the necessity of excellent training of your upperclassmen and getting them to buy into making personal contacts and individual invites of new students during the first couple of weeks of school.

Can you give your upperclass leaders 4 or 5 contacts to text before your first big event of the year?

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Monday, August 4, 2025

Six College Ministry Keys

1. Be visible and available on campus.   Attend campus events, eat where students eat, walk across the campus and through the Student Center every day.

2.  Empower student leaders.  When students have ownership, they invest more time, energy and all of who they are.  Plus, they will connect with students the College Minister would never even see.  You know I am ALWAYS going to say student leaders are key!

3.  Focus on Issues with which student wrestle.  What are some of the current questions students have?  What are some issues on campus?  What are the tough questions about faith?  Speak on these and show how the Bible relates to and speaks to these issues.

4.  Combine fun with depth.  Every ministry needs easy entry points.  Someone has said, "A ministry ought to be like a swimming pool with shallow ends and deep ends.  Some are not ready to swim in the deep end."  Gosh, I like that and wish I had said it.  Plus, students can laugh and be serious at the same event.

5.  Prioritize personal discipleship.  Meeting one to one with students is the most transformative thing you can do.  Start with your leaders.

6.  Keep a weekly "Relationship to do List."  Who should you check up on?  Who have you not seen in a while?  Who is new that you could meet up with for a coke and follow-up? Who wants to meet in the cafeteria for lunch tomorrow?

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Monday, July 28, 2025

Are You RE-BUILDING, BUILDING, or JUST DOING a College Ministry?

We all know what RE-BUILDING a ministry is.  It is taking over one that is down and giving it a new start.  Or, it is knowing our ministry had a less than good year last year and so we are making plans and adjustments for a better year to come.

But, what is the difference between BUILDING and JUST DOING?  Just Doing is continuing to do what we have always done.  It is working pretty well and maybe there is no point messing up a pretty good thing.  Let's keep on.  I am all about faithfulness and long term in college ministry.  The benefits are huge. But, there is a difference in faithfulness and just being on autopilot.  

Here is my definition of BUILDING:  It is learning from last year and seeing how to take it another step.  It is that the ministry is a little stronger in some way....or at least, you are trying to make it stronger than it was. But, every year cannot and will not be better than the year before.

Here are some questions to ask to be BUILDING:

1.  What was the best thing we did last year?  The difference in building and just doing is learning from that which went well.....not just looking at failures.  Try to learn from your successes and don't take them for granted.

2.  Is there some lesson to take away from what went the best last year that could be applied to something else this coming fall?

3.  Am I DOING something just out of habit or because we have always done it?  Is there a reason, a GOOD reason you are going to do everything your ministry is going to do this fall?  If not, are you wasting some time, energy, and resources that could go somewhere else?

4.  Every good College Minister knows the importance of the first 2-3 weeks in outreach!  But, are you just going to be DOING it this fall or are you going to BUILD it?  What are one or two ways that your start of school outreach could go one more step?  Come on, what is it?

5.  If you have a building/Center, is there one area, wall, or gathering place that could be freshened up with some new paint or a new arrangement?  What about a Coffee Bar?

BUILD it.....Don't just do it!!!  Use your experience and insight to BUILD the ministry.  

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Monday, July 21, 2025

More Tips and Truths for College Freshmen and their Parents

3 Common Misconceptions About College

 1.  Everyone can get a degree in four years without taking summer classes or going an extra semester.      It is rare for a student to be able to fit everything just right into eight semesters (4 years) and that is without switching majors.

2.  Everyone must have a major to start.  With or without a major, it is best to take basics at the very start.  If students jump into classes for a major in the beginning, and they change later, then that delays graduation even more.  Those basics have to be taken some time and it is best to take them at the start when college adjustment is going on.  Sometimes, jumping into a major at the start forces students into harder classes and can make for a tougher adjustment period.  Plus, those basics still have to be taken, even if it is senior year.

3.  If you don't pledge a Greek organization your first semester, you cannot later.  A student can go through the Greek process at any point in their college career.  

3 Common Mistakes

1.  Making class or schedule changes without the advice of an Advisor.  While the student is ultimately responsible for all class decisions, it is the job of an Advisor to make them aware of school policies, class rotations, graduation requirements, etc.  Not taking classes in the proper rotation can cause a student to have to wait a whole year for a certain class to be offered again. 

2.  Dropping one or more classes that puts them below what is classified a fulltime students (Usually 12 hours).  Not being classified a fulltime student can make insurance invalid, scholarships null and void and even possibly not be allowed to live in school housing.  I know of a situation where a student dropped a class putting her below 12 hours.  Heading home that weekend, she had a fender bender and the insurance company said her insurance was not in force due to her no longer being a full time student.

3.  Failing to drop a class properly and then receiving an F on your transcript at the end of the semester..  Students decide to drop a class and  sometimes just stop going and forget that they have not officially gotten out of the class.  It is a hard reminder when that F pops up on the grades at the end of the semester.

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Thursday, July 17, 2025

Why Do College Freshmen Drop Out of Church?

 Various studies indicate that the majority of college freshmen make no spiritual connection at college.

  First of all, you have to realize that many of them disappeared prior to high school graduation.  Many seniors who walk across church stages on Senior Sunday have been missing for awhile. But, for those involved in church through high school graduation, what happened?

Often, high school seniors feel they have graduated from church. 

Many youth ministries have more and more become separated from the church as a whole.  Wednesday night youth services usually have more youth than Sunday morning Bible Study and Worship.  When they leave the youth group, their church is gone.  Senior Sunday often feels like a graduation rather than a passing to another phase.

College is busier.  

College just has more going on and more new things to adapt to and students do not take the intentional steps to make sure it is a priority and their schedule just fills up and church is not a part of it.  Students go to college looking for two things:  friends and fun.  The friends and fun they find usually determines the rest of where they go.  Students have to be intentional about making church a part from the start.  Christian groups on campus and college churches will have fun get acquainted events in the start.  Encourage them to look there.

Freshmen go where their friends go.

It is simple.  If none of their new friends to go church, why would they?  Going to a new and strange church is hard!  Going to a new and strange church by yourself is even harder.  Making Christian friends connections in the beginning is a huge factor. Christian upperclassmen who are involved in a church can take them.

College churches are often much larger.

The majority of churches are about one hundred people are less.  Most college churches that reach out to college students are much larger.  Even when freshmen go once, they often don't return out of a feeling of not belonging or how different it was from what they are used to attending.

Freshmen are exposed to a wide variety of ideas, questions and even to those who are critical of faith.

One of the things that can happen at college is students are exposed to different beliefs, religions and skepticism about Christian faith.  While some professors will be openly Christian in their expressions, and another may be openly critical of faith.  The student sitting next to them my be a Buddhist or Witch in their beliefs.  Who knew all those different ideas were out there? And, they seem so sincere.

Freshmen often just feel overwhelmed.

It is not unusual for freshmen to say they are just scared.  It is not just one thing....it is the bigness and change of it all.  Consequently, they just pull back and try to simplify their life as much as possible.

Students sometimes mess up and drop church out of feelings of guilt.

In an attempt to fit in, they might be drunk the first time or have a sexual experience and all that is contrary to who they have been prior to that and their sense of guilt just pushes them away. Help them know that messing up does not have to be the final word of who they are and will be.

A Few Suggestions:

Help students to understand the importance of being intentional about making faith connections during those first couple of weeks.

Make sure the Baptist Collegiate Ministry, another ministry, or college church has their name and contact info PRIOR to school starting.

Call and encourage them during those first couple of weeks and help them to know someone cares and they are not alone.

Parents can make plans to go to church with them on Move-In Weekend and Parents or Homecoming Weekend.  Let them know this is part of the weekend schedule.  It is easier for them to go back to somewhere they have already been.

Help them know that doubts about faith are normal and can even be a source of growth in their faith.  Remind them:  Just because you don't know an answer to a question does not mean there is not an answer.

Arliss Dickerson is a college ministry speaker, writer, and friend to freshmen and parents.  Check out Tips for College Freshmen:  124 Tips for Fun, Faith & Good Grades at Amazon.com/dp/B09QFB9DJ9 and 7 Red Flags In A Dating Relationship at Amazon.com/dp/B0DTTRJH38.





Wednesday, July 9, 2025

YOUR College Freshman Probably WON'T Go to Church!

Some surveys say 7 out of 10 high school seniors active in church make NO spiritual connections in college.  Other studies say, it is ONLY 6 out of 10 that don't go to church after high school. So, odds are, that includes your son or daughter.....or grandkids.  That basically does not count those who disappeared after turning 16 and getting their driver's license.

 When I have shared this statistic at Senior Sunday lunches and other Christian graduation events, the parents always smile at me.....which I used to not understand.  My wife explained it to me, "They all think it is their kids that will go."

But, I think there is also  ANOTHER REASON:  Parents don't care!  I don't mean to be harsh  I have realized that many parents did not go to church while they were in college and they came back to church.  So, they just assume the same thing for their daughter or son.  I believe in some way or other, that is communicated to their son or daughter.  Or, at the very least, there is not communicated any expectation or encouragement to be involved in church and/or a college ministry.

There are two problems with this.  First, If they do come back, they bring the issues that developed during this time without spiritual encouragement.  Second, they come back with the decisions they made during this "vacation from spiritual connections."  They make life choices and often pick a spouse during this time.  But, here is another problem:  Studies today indicate that many are not coming back after college as many formerly did.  I am not saying they will not ever...but.

Here is a less than perfect suggestion:  Parents should expect and communicate that they expect spiritual connections in college.  Does that guarantee it?  Nope.  But, most parents communicate expectations about grades and studying.  Do the same with spiritual conversations.  Just like you ask about grades and going to class, ask about church involvement and attendance.  "Where did you go to church Sunday?'  "Did you go to the Welcome Party at the campus ministry?  You can even tell them in advance that you are planning to ask.  Also, many ministries have a special Freshmen event like a "Survival Conference" with lots of fun activities, get acquainted things and spiritual info.  Some even have pre-school Retreats or Beach Retreats.  Sign them up for one of these.  Besides all the good info and meeting other freshmen, they will get connected to upperclassmen who are involved in the ministry.

If you go for "Move-In Weekend" plan to stay for Sunday and all of you attend one of the local college ministry churches.  It is a whole lot easier to go somewhere that you have already been once and know how and where to get in, etc. And/or, if you go for Parents Weekend or Homecoming, let them know in advance, that Sunday church will be on the agenda and they can let you know where they want to go.

One way you can increase the odds of their making a spiritual connection:  Send their name and contact info to the Baptist Campus Minister or church ministry leader before school starts.  College ministry groups are starting to make contacts now.

What a freshman does and who they connect with during the first couple of weeks, goes a LONG way toward determining the arc of their college career.

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Monday, July 7, 2025

10 Things Parents of a College Freshman Need to Know

 1.  Psychologists say the two greatest times of change in a person's life are birth to age one and high school graduation to Christmas.  Obviously, that is right where your student is.  That is why it is so important to stay connected and involved during this time, but letting them make and learn to make their own decisions.  Yes, it is a balancing act.

2.  College is usually harder than high school for most freshmen and their grades may not be as good as you are used to.  They may be studying just as hard or harder, yet their grades are not quite the same.  Sometime, this is a result of going immediately into harder upper class courses due to coming to school with college credits.

3.The friends and habits a student develops during the first 2-3 weeks often determine or shape their whole college career.  Make sure they understand the importance of starting with a clear set of priorities and realize the importance of a good start.

4.  Studies indicate that 6 out of 10 students active in church as a high school senior make NO spiritual connections in college.  If faith is a priority in your family, discuss the importance of and how to make it a part of those first three weeks.  Most students do not make an intentional decision to drop church and faith.  It just is not an intentional choice at the first.  They assume it will happen automatically.

5.  Parents cannot see their son or daughter's grades without a signed form that can be obtained from the Registrar's Office.  This is part of privacy laws.  It does not matter that you are paying the bill.

6.  Students who live in dorms on campus tend to make better grades.  It is about being connected to college life and feeling like a college student.  Students who commute from home should not have to live on the family schedule, but be encouraged to be a part of campus life.  Some buy a meal ticket or balance card that can be used for meals on campus.

7. National studies show that students who are active in campus organizations are more likely to be happy, stay in school and graduate.  Again, it is all about being connected and feeling a part.  Obviously, students can do too much that distracts from studies, but involvement is a healthy plus.

8.  A recent study shows that students tend to marry someone they date!  Really.

9.  You should know where your student lives and how they can be contacted other than by cell phone.  It is wise to know their dorm and room number or apartment address and number, etc.  How can someone else contact them, if need be?

10.  The average is for students to change their major 2 to 3 times.  It is best to take basics at the beginning before jumping into major classes, if possible.  This allows for adjustment and further determination of a major.

Some Suggestions:

Make sure your student understands, if they plan to drop a class, it is important to officially drop a class....not just stop going.  Also, if a student drops a class and this puts them below what is considered full time (usually 12 hours), they may not be considered a full time student which can affect scholarships, car insurance, living in a dorm, etc.

If joining a fraternity or sorority is an option, consider the possibility of delaying that until after the first semester.  This allows time to adjust to all the new and to have a clear sense of what a group is really like.

If you expect and talk to your student about good grades and study habits, why not talk about good faith practices and ask about them as well.  Expectations affect behavior.

A big help is to make sure the Baptist College Ministry - BCM (They don't care if you are Baptist or not.), some other ministry, and/or a local church has the name and contact information of your student prior to school starting. That can help connect them to some good relationships in the beginning.  Plus, College Ministers can be a great adult friend and guide during  this adjustment and key time.

Want more help for your freshman?  Check out Arliss' book, Tips for College Freshmen:  124 Tips for Fun, Faith & Good Grades at Amazon.com/dp/B09QFB9DJ9

Monday, June 30, 2025

The SECRET to Effective College Ministry

 I recently posted that the secret to effective college ministry is RELATIONSHIPS.  A friend reminded me of a Gary Smalley quote:  "Life is about relationships, everything else is the just the details."

Our relationships color everything.  They either open doors or close doors.

The most significant thing we can do to grow our ministry is to develop and empower strong student leaders.  That happens through relationships.  Do they know we care about them?  Are we an encourager and mentor to them?  Do we listen to them or just tell them?

Do you know various students on campus that are not connected to your ministry?  There is a grapevine on campus with a word about your ministry.  Part of that grapevine is influenced by your wider relationships with students on campus....students in other ministries......students in Student Government, etc.

College Administrators, Secretaries/Administrative Assistants, Janitors can all have an effect on our ministry.  If they know us and trust us, they are more likely to deal with us in a fair and even favorable way.  They figuratively and literally hold the keys to the campus.

Pastors, Youth Ministers and other staffers can have a big effect our ministry by students they send to us, resources they provide and wise counsel they can give.  Stacy Murphree at Austin Peay recently shared that one of her area churches Vacation Bible School offering for this year was her BCM ministry.  They gave Austin Peay BCM $6,000.  Did you read that.....$6,000!!!  Do church leaders know you well enough to invest in your ministry?

Alumni are becoming a greater factor than ever in college ministry.  As some churches decline and are unable to support college ministry budgets as they have in the past, alumni giving is even more important.  As college ministry staffs are more and more having to raise some or all of their salary, alums that know and believe in the ministry are more important than ever.  But, they need to know, trust you, and know that your interest in them is not just for money.

Friendships and relationships are the prime currency that God uses in the spreading of the Gospel!

Who are you having lunch with this week?  Who are you buying coffee or a coke for this week?

A Personal Note:  I have recently posted at Amazon Books "A College Ministry Formula".  It is a quick re-work of a book I took down a couple of years ago.  It lists what I have said and written in other places are the 5 essentials or building blocks for a strong college ministry.  It has two purposes to help the "Newbies" starting out this year to not have to learn them the hard way over their first 2-3 years. Second, it is a reminder to old and wise pros to not let all the things that develop obscure those things that really make a difference.  It is a whopping 34 pages and is the crazy price of $5.99.  You can check it out here:  Amazon.com/dp/B0FFTHL6HP

Tuesday, June 24, 2025

Cross Fertilization in College Ministry

 I am a BIG fan of cross fertilization in college ministry.

This week my friend Steve Masters, newly retired BCM College Minister at LSU, posted about the Summer College Ministers Fellowship meeting in Florida this week.  It is a gathering that started about 37 years ago.  It was three days of people writing on a White Board a topic or question.  Plus, each person there would share something they were doing, etc.

Out of those meetings came the best and most productive idea that I utilized in our ministry.  It was Freshmen Survival which for me and many others developed into a wider freshmen specific events and ministry.

But, here is my point:  It happened because College Ministers from 2 or 3 different states got together to share ideas.  I am all about College Ministers from different states getting together.  That way you don't hear the same old thing.  Different states tend to have some different strengths and approaches.

What are YOU doing for Cross Fertilization?  

Four Suggestions:

    1.  Make friends with a College Minister in another state who is on a campus similar to yours or has a ministry that you admire.  Ask some questions.  Go see them and spend a day following them around.  When I first came to Arkansas State, I flew to Texas and spent two days following Ron Wells around at Texas A&M.  When we were getting ready to re-start the Lunch Program at Arkansas State, we went to Mississippi State and talked to and watched June Scoggins do their Lunch Program.

    2.  When you are on another college campus, walk through every religious center on campus.  You see promotional material on the walls, you see handouts.  You even see how a building is laid out or utilized.  I have even walked thru a building and seen material I had written that they had "adjusted" and printed.

    3.  Talk to College Ministers in other denominations.  You don't have to agree theologically to learn from their methods and practices. What is the strongest college ministry of another denomination or a non-denominational college ministry in your state or another state near by?

    4.  Look at Websites.  In a couple of hours you can see a ton of different things by looking at the websites of different ministries...both local and national.  You will also see several that have not been updated from last year.  Is yours updated?

Here is the bottom line:  Summer is the time to be hearing and seeing new ideas and thoughts!  What are you doing to see and hear some new ideas or variations on an old idea?

Arliss Dickerson's book, A 3 Part College Ministry Success Formula, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B0BZ6Q7HSV and Reaching MORE College Students is at Amazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN

Wednesday, June 18, 2025

Evaluating Your Weekly Large Group Event

Does your weekly event help you reach more or fewer students?

1.  What is the purpose of your weekly event?  Is it meant to be an in-depth teaching time?  Is it aimed at those who are "serious" about their faith or is it meant to be a general gathering of students all across the faith spectrum

2.  What is the quality of the event?  It does not have to be a Hollywood production, but it should seem like those doing it are prepared, care about what they are doing, and represent the ministry well.

3.  Is it just a copy of "The IT Ministry"?  Are you trying to copy another popular ministry rather than being who you are?  You likely do not have the resources to be a weekly version of passion or some such event.  Do what you can do well.

  4.  Do students see a wide variety of faces leading with whom they can identify?  Everyone does not have to be a performer or a pretty face.  Remember, everyone up front represents the ministry in some way.

5.  Is there fun connected to it or is it fun to be there?  Fun and serious can mix in the same event or before and after.  It's ok to laugh and have a good time.

6.  Is it too Vanilla?  In evaluating, start with 30 minutes before it begins and through thirty minutes after it is over.  What is the energy level.  I am a huge advocate of music playing well before it is scheduled to start.....even "NON-Religious" music.

7.  Are students greeted and made to feel welcome when they come?  Greeters and mixers are huge.  No matter how good the quality of the event, students must feel welcome in order to come back.

8.  Is the meeting space being well utilized?  That can vary from seating arrangement, to lighting, to being clean and attractive.  Get a fresh eye to give you an opinion of it.

9.  Are the bathrooms clean and prepared?  You know, is there toilet paper, paper towels?  Does it look like it is still left from last week?

Adapted from Reaching MORE College StudentsAmazon.com/dp/B0BMW8NPMN

Sunday, June 8, 2025

Is it Time for an Old Idea to be a New Idea?

 Several years ago, many BSU/BCM/BSM ministries appointed teams to travel their state or area leading Vacation Bible Schools.  In some, they did it all and in others they worked with local volunteers. 

As many churches are now having a difficult time staffing VBS due to working moms not available to volunteer in the day time.  Some have gone to night time VBS, but that is still difficult for working parents..  Others are shortening their VBS or doing it for just an hour or so on Wednesday night during their regular Wednesday night time.   Is it time to have Summer Mission Teams travel to help churches have a Vacation Bible School?

Many children make their initial commitment to Christ during VBS.  What will take the place of that, if we do not do full blown VBS?  Is there a better idea?  This travelling team can bring a core of workers, materials and enthusiasm to help make it happen.

So, where do we go from here?  It just may be that Summer VBS Teams by Student Summer Missionaries might be a brand new idea!

Check out Reaching MORE College Students here Amazon.com/dp/B0MW8NPMN and Almost Everything About College Ministry Amazon.com/dp/B08CMD9CXX.


Monday, June 2, 2025

A Self Test for Student Leadership Development

1.  Is there one type of student leader that is most evident or most missing in your ministry?  Why is that?

2.  How similar or different from your own personality are the key student leaders in your ministry?

3.  How would you rate your recruitment and development of student leaders?

4.  What is one thing your ministry might add or do differently in training and developing student leaders? 

5.  Overall, is there a desire among students connected to your ministry so serve in a leadership role?  If not, why not?

6.  What are some ways your ministry could better demonstrate your commitment to the value of student leaders and highlight them in a positive way?

7.  How would you rate your own personal investment in your leaders and the amount of time given to that?  But remember it is possible to spend too much time with too few students.

8.  Do student leaders who graduate tend to serve in leadership roles in their churches following their college years?

7.  Are there students in your ministry who feel called to vocational ministry?  If so, how are you encouraging and developing them?  Are you giving adequate emphasis to students that God calls some to vocational ministry?

8.  What are some things that you could do immediately to help student leaders feel valued and appreciated?

9.  Make a list of those you consider key leaders in your ministry.

10.  Who are some students who could potentially be key leaders or should be now?

Arliss Dickerson's book, A 3 Part College Ministry Success Formula, is available at Amazon.com/dp/B0BZ6Q7HSV and Reaching MORE College Students is here, Amazon.com/dp/B0MW8NPMNTips for College Freshmen:  124 Tips for Fun, Faith & Good Grades is at Amazon.com/dp/B09QFB9DJ9.

Friday, May 30, 2025

The History of Baptist Student Union and Where We Are Now

 These are my thoughts after reading and then summarizing Lynn E. Maye's "History of BSU" as published in the 1960's.

First, I love the 4 Principles and think we are still operating off of those.

    1.  BSU work was frankly denominational.  It was BAPTIST student work.

    2.  Emphasis was placed on student INITIATIVE.  Students shared in organizing, planning and promoting the work.

    3.  BSU was to magnify the local church.

    4.  BSU was to offer nothing but the best because students deserve nothing but the best.

What does it mean to be "frankly denominational"?  In different parts of the country where Baptists are not strong, our ministries use different names that do not include Baptist.  I get that and have no problem with it.....so, how are they or should they be "frankly denominational"?  In today's climate of declining finances, some have suggested why don't we tie in with one of the larger Non-denominational ministries and put our people and money there?  I definitely do not support that idea.  While they may be building the kingdom, they are not building, promoting, and enhancing Baptist churches and students being Baptist leaders and ministers.

Early on, it was said it was to be "State Convention driven".  I agree with that and think there are many pluses to it.  One plus being that the ministries are responsible to their constituents.  Yet, I think that we need national leadership and input as well.  The early history was driven nationally. That is one area Southern Baptists are declining in is our national leadership.  We have gone from a national office with 15-20 workers to one national worker at the North American Mission Board.  While his (Paul Worcester) energy and travel seems endless, he is just one.  A national program waves the flag and promotes college ministry to all states and Baptists.  When a state convention can no longer do college ministry, should we nationally do something to help or minister in that state?

In 1927 the Book of Techniques was written.  It is more important than ever that we provide materials written by the experienced pros on how to do college ministry.  College ministry is hard!  Many of our College Ministers are young.....it is to their disadvantage and our ministry to students for them to have to learn everything the hard way.  One vital role of national leadership is providing materials and training. Some is being done in that area, but we need to do MORE.

In the 1960's two emphasis days were established in churches.  They were "On To College Day" and "Student Night at Christmas".  We need those emphases back!!  It raises the flag for college ministry in our churches.  It points Baptist students to our BAPTIST ministries.  Student Night at Christmas was a night of testimonies and stories from students who had come home from college.  On to College Day challenged and informed students headed to college.  And, it kept it on the mind of local church folks.  

There was an emphasis in the very beginning on personal evangelism.  It has always been there and always will be.  Sometimes, BSU, BSM, BCM has been criticized as not being evangelistic....the misunderstanding there has been that is NOT all our ministries do.  Part of being a BAPTIST student ministry is reaching, connecting to and challenging "the missing" Baptist students who came to Christ early on and have either walked away from church or just not known how to take that early faith to an adult faith in an academic setting.  It is also sharing the call to vocational ministry and mentoring those who are called. Mentoring "the called" is taking on greater emphasis and more needs to be done there as many pastors are aging out.

Cuts have been made and are being made in different states.  How do we deal with that and what do we do?  First, let's admit it and say it out loud.  For example, one of the states that was an early leader in doing BSU ministry, now has no statewide program.  Others are making small cuts here and there and doing it quietly in order to not project a negative image.  Let's wave the flag of BAPTIST college ministry.  Of course, others are doing college ministry that God is using.  But, they are NOT doing BAPTIST college ministry.  And, there is real benefit in BAPTIST college ministry for God's kingdom and Baptist churches.

Final Thought:  Reading the history made me proud of Baptists and their foresight early on. I fear it is creeping away just a bit.  Let's not lose that vision!

Arliss Dickerson's book, "Reaching MORE College Students" is available at Amazon.com/dp/B0MW8NPMNand "A College Student's Guide to Spiritual Maturity" is at Amazon.com/dp/B0CXTCTNB1. "A College Ministry Success Formula" Amazon.com/dp/B0BZ6Q7HSV

Sunday, May 25, 2025

A BRIEF History of Baptist Student Union (Part 2) - The 4 Basic Principles

This an adaptation from Lynn E. May's "The Baptist Student Union in Retrospect" which was originally printed in the BAPTIST STUDENT in 1961 published by the Sunday School Board of the Southern Baptist Convention (Now Lifeway Christian Resources).

By 1924 the number of local Baptist Student Unions had grown to the extent that the students requested state rather than regional conferences.  Thirteen state meetings were planned for that fall.  All followed the theme, "Make Christ Campus Commander."  These conferences reached 2,453 students.  At fourteen state conventions in 1925, the students endorsed a plan for conducting a Student Evangelistic Week in the spring of 1926 and out of the 3,000 enrolled, 646 made commitments to do personal soul-winning. 

In 1923 many Southern Baptist Churches began to observe "Student Night" in recognition of their college students.  The idea caught on and "Student Night at Christmas" became an annual event.  In the fall of 1924, "Join the Church Day" became an annual event.

In 1927 Mr. Leavell prepared a book of techniques,  The Baptist Student Union.  In 1928, the Southern Baptist Convention, in the midst of a financial crisis, directed the transfer of the work to the Sunday School Board with them to accept all financial obligations for the work and to be recognized as the official agency for student activities of the Southern Baptist Convention.  Headquarters was moved to Nashville on October 1, 1928 and the Department of Student Work was born.

In 1926 Southern Baptists were providing for the entire student movement a total of only 30 workers.  Only three conventions had employed state secretaries and nine (9) supported campus secretaries.  By 1929 the total number of full-time secretaries had risen to thirty-four (34).  They reported a total of forty-seven (47) in in 1936.

In spite of the depression, 1,864 students went to Atlanta in October of 1930 for the second All-Southern Baptist Student Conference.  During this conference the Student Department officially launched "The Master's Minority."  The Master's Minority Covenant called for personal commitment regarding:  (1) Salvation, (2) Worldliness Out, (3) Bible Study, (4) Prayer and Meditation, (5) Church Loyalty, (6) Sabbath Observance, and (8) Christian Witnessing.  Students were thrilled with this and carried it back to their campuses and the movement grew rapidly and transformed lives and campuses across the country.  Students chose prayermates and established prayer groups.

Fifteen years after Mr. Leavell began his work,  the Baptist Student Union was functioning on 70 percent of the campuses of the South and reaching 60,000 students.  State Conventions began to purchase or construct buildings on or adjacent to serve as student centers.

The program of student summer missions apparently had it beginnings in Mississippi in 1931.  By 1932 all states were promoting such a program.  They gave special emphasis to Youth Revivals conducted by student teams.  It expanded in scope to college student teams leading Vacation Bible Schools throughout their states.  In 1949 twenty-five students served outside the United States as Summer Missionaries.

Throughout the rapid growth of the BSU, four principles, laid down in the early years, have guided its development.

1.  BSU work was frankly denominational.  It was BAPTIST student work. No interdenominational activity could substitute for it.

2.  Emphasis was place on STUDENT INITIATIVE.  Students shared in organizing, planning, and promoting the work.

3.  BSU was to magnify the local church.  

4.  BSU was to offer students nothing but the best because they deserve and demand the best.

In the 1940's the staff at the Student Department began to grow.  There were positions added to do training on campuses and one particular staffer was to direct work among student nurses.  Religious Focus Week (REW) became a part where a team of speakers would spend a week on a campus speaking, leading seminars, speaking in classrooms, etc.

Frank Leavell died December 7, 1949. Dr. G. Kearnie Keegan, pastor of Temple Baptist Church in Los Angeles succeeded Leavell in 1950.

In the 1960's an orientation program for high school students was initiated and "Off to College Day" in churches was born to help churches prepare students for college and promote BSU to them.  Also in the 50's the growing number of International students studying in the U. S. led to the development of intentional and specialized ministry to them.

NEXT:  "The History and Where We are Now"

Check out Reaching MORE College Students here Amazon.com/dp/B0MW8NPMN and A 3 Part College Ministry Success Formula here Amazon.com/dp/B0BZ6Q7HSV.